As Saturday and Sunday my wife is working from 11:00 to 20:00 I have quite a bit of time to myself. :-) I tried adding a shower before the session and some erotic videos to watch to help with my arousal. The trouble is I find if I have an erection my thoughts keep going towards a penile orgasm. Old habits die hard! (sorry for the pun) I found it very difficult to sense the delicate feelings I am learning to...
Well, it was an hour well spent. No dry or wet O's to speak of, but enjoyable. First, I think I need more than an hour for a session, or at least have available more than an hour. Because by the time I think I got into the right mental and physical frame of mind I was already having to check the clock every so often to see how much time I had left. The first half hour...
After a good day sailing, I thought it would be nice to finish the day off with a session. Although I was starting to get the pulsing feeling against my prostate. I did not get very good contractions. It could be my nerve damage causing this, but I did not feel the Aneros being drawn deeply into my rectum as has happened before. Another thought is perhaps I was too concerned about the time. Although I spent an hour and...
Decided to have a session this evening even though the temperature is quite hot and it is very humid. Did not make any progress as I was to hot and uncomfortable. So I learnt again that relaxation is the key. Made progress in another way though. My wife now knows I have my Aneros. Which is something I would once have kept very secret from her as she is not very adventurous. She has not made any comments but she [I]may[/I]...
After my Sunday morning session I spent some more time reading the wiki and postings on the forum. I had 3 things I wanted to try differently. Firstly my position. Lying on my back I did not have any support to lift me off the bed and stop the handle touching the bed and stopping the Aneros moving freely. So I placed pillows under me at the base of my back to lift me. Secondly I did not think I...
Saturday and Sunday morning I had sessions lasting about an hour, but I did not experience anything different from my first session. I was not disappointed by this as I knew from everybody's comments on the forum and in blogs that this is a journey of discovery....
My MGX arrived last Thursday and as my wife was working for the afternoon and evening I thought I should make use of the quiet time and have my first session. I should point out that I have a spinal condition called Cauda Equina that causes some ED and over the last few months I have hardly been able to ejaculate, either masturbating or during intercourse with my wife. My sex life has been very traditional with the only experimenting...
I just got my HELIX! I was so excited that my hands where shaking.. and I almost dropped the package. My first ride with HELIX felt so good!!! :) I totally prefer HELIX to MGX. It just slides in and out smoother, and it also produces P-waves easier :) mmm.. After doing some school stuff I had another session which took about 2.5hours.. I took it slowly experiencing everything I could with this new toy :D Now I need to...
What I learned today will hopefully help me on my road to the super O. I've read so many recommendations about letting your body go, and letting it guide the way. I understood the words, but never the true meaning until today. And, there is not a fork in the road with two or three options; there is a spoon with options and paths so close to each other but distinctly different making an almost infinite number...