well, it's not as easy as i thought that it would be--thought i had it cracked the other day but i'm still a long way from being there--still worth the effort though--tried the methods of fleshjoe and thicktop4u, pushing the p tab as far towards the anus as possible and rocking the hips like climbing the stairs as described--helped some but nothing that takes off by itself and keeps going--there are some promising feelings of about 5 or 10 seconds...