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Hello there,

I don't know who will ever read this post, but I'll share my journey with you guys anyway.

I bought the helix trident 2 years ago, and at first I didn't feel much. I practiced a lot but nothing extraordinary would happen. I had some pleasurable sensations down there, like a sort of warm feeling in my ass, but nothing mind blowing.

So after a few months, I was completely discouraged and disappointed. I started to believe that all these videos of men shaking with the aneros inside were fakes. I was angry against aneros and believed they were liars, because no matter how hard i tried, it didn't work. And no matter what method i would use, the tug of war or do nothing or whatever advice i would follow, it didn't do anything new.  I still had nice and warm sensations, but that was it.

In the meantime, I had bought other toys, like the nexus revo 2 (vibrating prostate massager) which felt amazing. After only a few sessions, i was able to come without touching my dick and I loved it. I also bought a 5 inch dildo, and while at first i didn't like it, after buying the right lubricant and finding the right position (riding it cow girl), i was able to come without touching my dick and it was so intense.

Fast forward last week. A group of friends and I had challenged ourselves not to come or masturbate for a month, which i did. Towards the end of the challenge i started playing with my ass externally (kinda cheating tbh haha) and it felt good. And after the end, I wanted to use the aneros again, just to give it a try one "last" time. It felt good, as usual, and i left it in my ass for the night. I have to mention that by that time, i still didn't masturbate or ejaculate, so i was pretty horny.

When I woke up the next day, my ass felt "twitchy", and a bit sore. I had the feeling that my muscles were tired because of the aneros. I plugged it out and went to uni.

When i plugged it back in the same evening, that's when everything changed.

I could hit a specific spot in my ass, where my muscles were tired. I just had to gently squeeze my muscles and i would hit this spot. After a few reps, my heart started beating like crazy, i was hot af and very hard. I decided to squeeze my muscles one last time and keep the aneros in that specific spot, without releasing pressure. I was thinking "don't stop don't stop don't stop" and my muscles just couldn't take it anymore, and they started to spasm, and it was pure bliss

I was moaning really loud but had to stay quiet because my family was sleeping. my muscles kept involuntarily moving and were hitting my prostate so hard, it was amazing. It lasted about 5min and I had to take the aneros out because I had to sleep

Fast forward a few days later. After a few sessions I can now have full body orgasms, just like in the videos I once thought were fake. I can also do this without using the aneros, I just squeeze my anus and here we go again. And I can do that whenever and wherever I want. On the bus, sitting on a chair or even walking outside, I can do it. Sometimes it happens spontaneously so it's kinda annoying, but for the rest it's pure bliss.

Now my prostate feels "funny" at all times, and while I don't think I have reached the "super O" yet, I really like the sensations of my "small Os".

Good luck to anyone trying to achieve this. I know a lot of people say it, but keep at it. I was like you just a week ago, and I just think i got really lucky. I don't have any advice because nothing worked for me, just do you're thing and someday it will come (no pun intended)

 

Sorry for my grammar or possible mistakes, english isn't my native language.

Stay safe and enjoy your journey 🙂


   
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Congratulations on your success. I've just started my own journey and have had only one extraordinary session, so I can't comment on what you've experienced, but my limited experience made a believer out of me. Keep it up, and please add to your journey when you're able.


   
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Congratulations on all your success. You did indeed have a super o in my opinion,total body orgasms are super o aswell.

Just relax into the journey now and enjoy all you get. In time the orgasm may amplify in intensity.

You weren’t really that lucky. This journey doesn’t progress until we are ready,that’s just how it is. 
Keep us updated. 🙂


   
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Congratulations! As @Helghast, I think you had a Super-O. What’s nice, it will continue to increase in terms of intensity and frequency!


   
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Posted by: @refasme

I bought the helix trident 2 years ago, and at first I didn't feel much. I practiced a lot but nothing extraordinary would happen. I had some pleasurable sensations down there, like a sort of warm feeling in my ass, but nothing mind blowing.

This is actually quite common. Patience is often needed before the paradigm shift in thought processes and body awareness (the 'rewiring') takes hold.

Posted by: @refasme

So after a few months, I was completely discouraged and disappointed.

This is also quite common, I believe this is largely due to false and/or unrealistic expectations about the effects of prostate massage with Aneros devices.

Posted by: @refasme

A group of friends and I had challenged ourselves not to come or masturbate for a month, which i did. ... I wanted to use the aneros again, just to give it a try one "last" time. It felt good, as usual, and i left it in my ass for the night. I have to mention that by that time, i still didn't masturbate or ejaculate, so i was pretty horny.

This practice of temporal abstinence has helped many men crossover into the Super-O zone (ref: Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention).

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...I can now have full body orgasms, just like in the videos I once thought were fake. I can also do this without using the aneros, I just squeeze my anus and here we go again. And I can do that whenever and wherever I want.

Now my prostate feels "funny" at all times, and while I don't think I have reached the "super O" yet, I really like the sensations of my "small Os".

I think you have reached the Super-O, multiple times in fact, so give yourself credit for your prostate awakening training and the rewiring you have accomplished .

Good Vibes to You!


   
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@rumel wow thank you so much for your reply! I'm keeping at it but I'm afraid I'll either become addicted or that I'll become use to it.

 


   
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Posted by: @refasme

...I'm afraid I'll either become addicted or that I'll become use to it.

Yes, addiction is a possibility (I warn about this in my Introductory Message to New Members post) but there are many other addictions which could be much, much worse for you. If one has to endure an addiction this one isn't too bad, I'm addicted and surviving just fine thank you. As far as becoming used to it, yeah, it can become part of your new 'normal', at least it has for me.

Good Vibes to You!


   
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I concur with everything @rumel wrote, addiction is a possibility but for what it's worth, I'll think you'll see it coming and you'd really have to push things pretty far for it to become an actual problem. And then, it's also very true that if you recognize in yourself some addiction behaviors, this is a much healthier and safer addiction to have compared with several others, and cutting back is not *that* hard if you ever decide you need to... 


   
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Update:

Hello guys thank you for your replies, I'm glad to update you on my journey

I had 4 days off this week and I think I kinda overused the aneros: yesterday for instance, I did a 7 hour session, followed by a 2 hour pause, and then slept with the aneros inside and had a couple of other orgasms.

I don't know who exactly came up with the idea of such a sex toy, but he / she is a genius. Wanking off is just shit now. And I'm sad for all of my narrow minded homophobic straight friends, because they're missing out on so much pleasure, just by fear of "becoming gay" lol.

Anyway the 7 hour session was great, had a lot of super O's, but way too many actually. My whole body is sore right now, like even my neck, and i feel like i have done some pretty intensive workout.

And this evening, after reading a post here about "nipple rewiring" I tried to play with my suction cups while the aneros was inside me and it felt so good. I would describe it as this: it's like i had 2 joystick on my chest to control my prostrate, and it feels amazing.

I think I'm going to take a break now, but it's hard because i can actually have the same orgasms without the aneros, whenever and whenever I want. I had one on the bus, sitting on a chair and even just walking. It is changing my life. I'm always happy and willing to do something. I love it

Thank you all for your help, this forum has helped me a lot 🙂

Stay safe,

Refasme


   
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@refasme

Sounds great! Just be aware that it's possible to burn out from those super long sessions, I was there in early 2020, from a cost-benefit perspective you'll be better off if you start pacing yourself right now instead of waiting for things to become less fun. It might feel like you have unlimited energy for this right now and that everything else pales in comparison, but your body will need to rebalance itself at some point, in my case I crashed pretty hard...  Just my experience, be kind to your body and mind, take care! 

 


   
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Posted by: @refasme

I had 4 days off this week and I think I kinda overused the aneros: yesterday for instance, I did a 7 hour session, followed by a 2 hour pause, and then slept with the aneros inside and had a couple of other orgasms.

Wow! 7 hours session!

My personal record, for one day, was 6 hours but in two sessions: 2h40 in the morning and 3h20 in the afternoon.

Nowadays, I have sessions of  1h30 to 2h twice a week...


   
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Hmm... I'm finding I fall asleep after 30-45 min.


   
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Hi everyone, just wanted to update you on my journey

It's now been a month since i discovered the true power of the helix trident, and i never thought i could achieve such orgasms.

I have completely stopped touching my dick and yet I'm more than satisfied after each session. Last time i came was about 3 weeks ago (only through fingering my ass) and last time I had a classic ejaculating orgasm was 4 weeks ago. The fact that I don't touch my dick anymore turns me on so much, I just love the fact that very few people are able to achieve what I do, I feel like I'm part of an elite haha

This week i used the aneros everyday once i got back from college and while i sometimes think that I'm getting used to it, my orgasms are still increasing in intensity. I can now feel the pleasurable waves in my legs and butt cheeks and when I feel the orgasm building up, I merely caress or slap my ass and boom, I'm orgasming.

My nipples are now very sensitive as well, I can tickle them and it will make my prostate dance. I just couldn't even fathom that one day I would be able to achieve this. I mean man, I'm a guy and i don't touch my dick to orgasm, that's crazy.

I'm thinking of trying out other aneros products, maybe the eupho or the progasm, do you guys have any recommendations?

Stay safe,

Refasme


   
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Posted by: @refasme

I'm thinking of trying out other aneros products, maybe the eupho or the progasm, do you guys have any recommendations?

The Eupho will always be king for me, in my opinion it's the best product in the whole Aneros line. So yeah, highly recommended! 


   
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Each of my Aneros products gives me fantastic orgasms. My favorite changes often. So whether it's the Eupho or the Progasm, I'm sure you'll be happy with them.


   
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@zentai just ordered the eupho syn trident and the progasm jr, can't wait to try them !

 


   
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