Fake orgasm?

Posted by: @runinnekidgmail-com

Are there people out there who instantly get off or am I really doing it that wrong?

Yes, there may be a few extremely sensitive individuals who need very little time to reach orgasmic sensations. However, this is far from typical and what you may not know about any video you watched is the extent of foreplay which may have taken place before the video was shot. There may have been so much teasing beforehand that his arousal level may have been extreme. On the other hand it could all have been faked as well.

I wouldn't attach too much significance to some of these on-line videos and I agree with what BF Mayfield said many years ago...

BF Mayfield

My opinion is that YOU WILL NEVER DISCOVER THE TECHNIQUES OF ACCESSING THE SUPER O FROM WATCHING A VIDEO. The reason, as I've described previously, is that there is a great deal that is going on internally that defies scrutiny. So while such videos may be titilating, they will have a difficult time being enlightening. (It's like someone giving you a video that shows an individual meditating and expecting you to learn how to meditate from it.) What I'm trying to express here is that even if one sees an individual who outwardly displays physical signs of this type orgasm (and remember that many don't), it does nothing to illuminate the path for getting there! Such videos may be interesting to watch, but they won't get you where you want to go.

The answer to the second part of your question is NO, you are probably not doing anything 'wrong' per se. For most men there is a learning curve involved. It takes experimenting with varying techniques to find the combinations that lead down the path to prostate based orgasms. Each man's path is different, each of us will experience these orgasms differently as well. Thinking that your orgasmic experience should match what you have seen in some video is not only misleading yourself but subverting your own unique orgasmic response. Envy or jealousy of others response to these wonderful little devices serves you no purpose, it is your own personal awareness that needs to be the focus of your attention.

Good Vibes to You!

Posted by: @runinnekidgmail-com

and (I'm guessing) faked an orgasm

If I would post videos of my sessions you could watch an old man doing his Qigong morning exercises for about two minutes, then lying down prone on his bed and just starting to orgasm with no Aneros inserted and it would be no fake.

Indeed ...

Posted by: @rumel

For most men there is a learning curve involved

and it's been an amazing curve to me and mostly upwards. But no recommendation could be of more value for your journey than

Posted by: @rumel

it is your own personal awareness that needs to be the focus of your attention

Your awareness can be trained like any skill, like a sommeller learns to taste finest nuances of flavor, but you will hardly learn anything from watching somebody degusting a bottle of wine you even know anything about. Just as little you know about that person in that video, why it must not be fake at all.

Posted by: @runinnekidgmail-com

am I really doing it that wrong?

There is only one thing you're "doing wrong", you haven't yet got rid of specified expectations.

The biggest hurdle on your personal and unique journey will be to let go any expectation - no matter whether from your own earlier experiences or experiences others tell or post videos of. That's the only thing for sure and somehow like trying to square the circle.

Especially men already accustomed to anal sex may expect it must have anything to do with size.

Posted by: @runinnekidgmail-com

I have the full size Progasm

Ha! Have you seen "Men In Black" and do you rember the "Noisy Cricket"? Don't underestimate those tiny Aneros tools. If you like, read my report about my little "Eupho Syn" to get an idea, if your Helix didn't already taught you so. 😉

Good luck for your journey and btw welcome to the forum!

Mart

I once had an orgasm as soon as I inserted my Aneros. But the conditions were special.

I had done a session of about 2 hours in the morning with many orgasms. I then took a break to eat. Later, in the early afternoon, I felt like doing a second session. This is unusual for me, I usually only do one session in a day. But here I felt that my prostate, in some way, was asking for an extra session.

This extra session was, in fact, an extension of the morning session. It was as if I hadn't taken a break. I had an instant orgasm as soon as I inserted my Aneros. And the rest of the session was fantastic too!

But this is unusual, normally it takes me 5 to 10 minutes to have the first orgasms.

Posted by: @morexp

I usually only do one session in a day.

I used to sometimes a less twice in a day,as long as it’s around 30 mins,it can work quite well. Often the second session was better! 

Following the urge to visit the bathroom has never been an issue to me, because when I came back it's been like you wrote, ...

Posted by: @morexp

It was as if I hadn't taken a break.

🙂

Posted by: @helghast

a less twice in a day

I wouldn't call it each time a session, but Aneros-less (Aless), if that has been meant, meanwhile has become kind of 24/7 to me. 😉

@sowithoutaneros perhaps your right. Maybe the first was just an appetiser. 🙂

sometimes I have a straight up prostate orgasm hands-free within seconds of inserting a toy. I've had an O come on after the toy moved in and out of me on its own just like 5 times. Other times I don't have an O after a few minutes or longer. Depends on the toy and honestly the time of day. My best sessions have always been early afternoon. No idea why, they just are best. If I have sessions after 8pm or so it takes longer to have Os and I have fewer...unless my wife is playing with me too 😉

This morning I had a very good session with a stimulator.

For some time now, at the end of the session, I play a little game of half-removing the massager before letting it go back to curling up with my prostate. This usually triggers delicious orgasms. I do it several times in a row.

And this morning, for the first time, I had a bit of the opposite of an instant orgasm upon insertion by having an orgasm right after I removed my massager. If I wanted to, I could continue in A-less all day, it's delicious!

@morexp I have been having that experience for the first time now by using a progasm. It can get triggered driving down the road and if I want it to stop, I really have to work on it mentally. I'll be honest, I usually don't try that hard.

@regal13

It's true, the vibrations of driving are sometimes delicious!
And this morning, at the end of my session with a Progasm Jr, not only did I have an orgasm when I removed the massager, but I continued in A-less for 10-15 minutes until I went to shower. And right now, 5 hours after the session ended, I'm still having P-Waves in my prostate area. If I add a few strokes on my nipples I have delightful Mini-O's again!