What is the secret

Hello, PIPEMAN.

Welcome to this forum.

First of all, there are no secrets or sure-fire step-by-step recipes to achieving good results with Aneros devices. The best of the tips and tricks is in the Aneros Wiki, linked at the top of this page. After you wade through that and some threads in this forum, it's up to you to figure out what will work for you. The whole process is mysterious, counterintuitive, and user-specific.

As for orgasms, well, that's another controversial topic around here. Some guys get hands-free wet Os easily, others never do, and many don't want them in any case. With some practice and patience, you can probably get to Mini-Os. Progressing from there to Dry Os and Super Os may be more difficult, but most guys who persist succeed eventually even if it takes them a year or two.

I wish you the best of luck and hope you enjoy the ride.

Cheers,

Dave

Pipeman, you've made the first step already. You've asked for help here. You won't find a more encouraging and supportive group of guys than the ones here.

Perhaps it would be helpful to tell us what you normally do with the Aneros devices: how you prepare, what position you use, what actions you make during a session, and what feelings (if any) you get from this.

Nobody here will have the exact answers for you, but we can tell you what worked for us. There are some common factors. Most of them are noted in the wiki. For others, if you describe what's going on, someone might say "Hey, I've had that." and tell you how they advanced from there. What they say might not work for you personally, but it might give you ideas to work from.

Perhaps you could join the official chat (Link at the top) one weekend, or maybe the unofficial one (see recent post in forum) if you can't wait.