Hip pillow

I have one of the donut pillows for people that suffer from hemorrhoids, I've never tried it lying down but it does provide adequate space for the toy if you wanted to try sitting in a chair.  In fact I'm using mine right now! 😋 

I bought a wedge shaped pillow off amazon that I use under my legs.  Search for "Ebung Leg Pillow Memory Foam - Cooling Gel Leg Elevation."  

I made something out of a piece of upholstery foam years ago, it's a simple U shape that raises the hip but does not get in the way of the device. I got fancy and made a fleece cover for it but it's not really necessary. It's basically like a bigger, squarer neck pillow. It works really well for me.