Stay with it guys (more beginners advice)

Lately, over the past week, I’ve had some disappointing sessions. I went from regular prostate orgasms and euphoria, to simple feelings of sensitivity, but almost a feeling of numbness in the prostate area. I could sense tension building, but didn’t have much pleasure and couldn’t reach orgasm. In hindsight, I was pushing myself too hard.

Today I had my best session yet, after taking a break for 4 days. When I started this session, I told myself, this is not about orgasming, its just about feeling pleasure. If you can find it, just focus on the pleasure and try to stay there as long as possible. After about 30 mins of not much excitement, I was ready to throw in the towel. For some reason though, I didn’t. I decided to sit at this low level of pleasure for a while longer. Suddenly, that familiar tingle, heat, and glow began to radiate and grow. I was hit with a gentle p-gasm. Then shortly later, a feeling of mild euphoria. Then shortly later intense euphoria. Then I was smiling ear to ear when a feeling of light headed orgasm began to rise and hit me all at once. My back arched like one of those demonic possession movies, and my muscles clenched on the aneros and simply wouldn’t let go. As this happened I was overwhelmed with pleasure and began laughing out loud. This same process happened 3 or 4 times over the next 20 mins, with emotions ranging from laughter to tears. When the session ended I was out of breath and left in a haze of pleasure.

So what to take away from this? Expectations are one of the biggest inhibitors to a successful session. Not every session will be successful, even after your rewiring is mostly complete. Aside from a 4 day run of poor sessions, I make additional progress almost every single time. Getting further and further every time is what makes this so addictive. Don’t give up, but don’t chase the pleasure. Bathe in it. Soak in it, and allow it to amplify on its own accord.