I haven't been having regular sessions like I used to. I always seemed to pull off an amazing session once a week. Over the last few months, though, I've been lucky to get a session in once a month. Mainly I think this is due to stress over not getting my office work done if I take time, even an hour or two, during the day to pleasure myself sexually.
I could do session at night. I have in the past and they are good, but my peak performance prostate sessions are 11am-4pm. Not sure why, but my enema clean outs are more reliable and cleaner during my peak window. Also, I like to hang out with my wife at night when she's home from work. I can let loose and just be me when she's gone. She doesn't care what I do or sound like when she's around. But I get self conscious about my own utterances when she might hear me. I think it's training from growing up at home where I had to jerk and cum in complete silence, or when living with roommates, or when my sister in law lived with my wife and I for a year (yikes I had to jerk off in the room next to my sis in law's room, talk about nerve wracking!). I make some noise when I'm in the back room and my wife is in the living room, but it's not like when I'm having a prostate session. Maybe I should ask her to be involved with me more often? She loves being with me during sessions, she touches me, she makes me have brutal strength prostate Os, and helps my cock cum with Aneros assist at the end (and she pegs me from time to time too!!). Hmmmmmm I should talk to her about this.
Anyway, I haven't had much to report on lately because I've had a handful of sessions since May. My last was August 3 and no idea when I'll have my next but last week of the month looks promising considering my wife is going on vacation alone for a while and I plan to really get it on with myself! I'd love to warm up leading up to that though...
Keep us posted! From what I've gathered so far, you're a very experienced and creative player. As a newbie to prostate play, most of things you do are out of my reach at this point, but it's always fun and exciting to learn what you are up to!
@seanyea thank you brother! I'll update soon. I should recap my hijinx from beginning of the month, it was a monstrous time indeed 😉
@techpump , it's like riding a bike; it never leaves you. I can relate to how you're feeling about your hiatus as I've lived it myself due to health concerns. I suspect all will fall back in the norm once you spend the time concentrating on yourself.
Good luck and good vibes to you.
BTW, I would love for my wife not only to be with me in my sessions but to understand that the rear door is not designed for only one purpose but this post is not about me.
@ggringo hey thanks man! Well I agree, women are missing out a lot of deep intimate bonding time with their guy when he's engaged in prostate stimulation. My wife gets sooooooooooo wet and swollen, with panties on, just playing with me and I'm not touching her at all. Last session she was with me, she came around my left side to give me head from a different angle (I had already had 20+ orgasms and she was blowing me while I had a toy in me and it was starting escalate) and I reached up to touch her pussy over her panties and she'd soaked through them, then I slipped a finger in her and she was beyond ready for my cock. While the plan was for her to blow me to cumming with a toy in (Super T in her mouth), I told her hop on top and it turned into a hot heavy and only couple minutes long fuck and I came all over her at the end and the toy never left me! Fucking amazing...but that was last year 🙁 I need to get her in the mix more often!
ggringo I hope one day your wife can play with you, well, you both can play together while you have an Aneros in you 🙂
@techpump much love to you! I haven't been doing much on prostate massage myself (or being active here) but getting back into it has started paying off for me finally! I had two absolute banger sessions last week that have me hungry for more.
I would also encourage you to ask your wife to be a greater part of your Anerosessions, that sounds like a wonderful idea. You already know she likes them, right? I've read comments from women all over the internet wishing that their husbands would be more vocal, and you're right, I think a lot of it is down to how men trained themselves to masturbate all the way back when they were boys and had to hide it from their parents. Be healed of that! I hope to read wonderful stories of the two of you together sometime in the future. 🤗
@faith-manages hey thanks for that! Yes our sex frequency is a little on the lower side the last year, maybe 4 to 6 times a month, and we just go for it in a traditional sense, hasn't been much exploratory playing. When we have the chance to fuck, we just fuck! We've both said that we want to play a lot more and my wife's HRT is finally starting to really get her there for more frequency and she's more awake at night so yes, a night of prostate play and toys galore is in the works!
I have a confession to make though. A huge problem I've had all year has been extreme pain and muscle tightness due to a spinal problem with my vertebrae. Specifically the junction with the problems in my lumbar spine had two vertebrae pinching the shit out of nerves, of which those nerves tie into the pelvic floor. This has severely hampered my entire sexual system: libido, size of flaccid, erection quality, staying power when erect, strength length and duration of orgasm, expulsion of semen during orgasm (ejaculation), and even peeing and strength of urine stream. Constant pain has created inflammation beyond belief. All these problems have prevented me from being able to WANT to get on the floor, give myself enemas, and do prostate sessions. My bowel movements have been constricted due to the specific muscles involved there, so I'm never clean or feel really comfortable for a session. My sessions have been less than a month all year for a reason and it wasn't just a "me" thing it was my body telling me "don't do this, I don't feel good." I've remedied this through an epidural spinal injection of steroid and it has helped so much in the last 9 days since I got it. And in 2 weeks I'll feel even better 🙂
So my plan is to wait a few more weeks and then really start back with gusto. I want to do it, but need to wait. I didn't know that my spine problems would effect my sexual system so terribly. Although I always cum hard, it felt less powerful the last year or more. Since my procedure I've had some ejaculatory orgasms in comfortable positions safe for my lumbar spine, and OMG these Os are so deep and so intense. It is awesome! So I can't imagine what my normal prostate Os will feel like. I'm willing to bet I'll have many more Os and they will be much more powerful. I will of course update here as things progress!!
@techpump I can understand the need to prioritize overall health over pleasure practices like Anerosessions, as I've needed to take time off myself to deal with insomnia issues that I've had for a few years now. Sorry to hear all that's been troubling you (as well as your wife) and hope that for both of us, this much-needed vacation will allow us to bounce back better than ever and have amazing sessions.
@faith-manages Thanks! I just looked at the top post of my thread here, when I made it, OMG Aug. 18?!?! Yes I was really in pain then, nonstop it was endless. I think between then and now I've had like 5 or 6 sessions tops and at least 2 or 3 of those were in a one-week period end of August when my wife went on vacay for a whole week. I will say this though, after getting the steroid injection, my erection quality, ease of getting an erection, blood flow to my penis in general, flaccid hang and size, and strength of my urine stream have all increased dramatically, like back to levels from years ago. My precum it kind of flows all the time just like it used to. My pelvic floor is so relaxed now it is amazing!! And when I have had orgasms with my wife and alone they are extremely deep in me, like they come from within, not like the base of my penis. And powerful contractions, very powerful again. I am DYING to get back to a prostate session! But I'm waiting to be 100% for sure and can move around how I want and need to. I am surely looking forward to it 😉