My First Aless

Thermocouple:  a device for measuring temperature, consisting of a length of wire of different metals connected at two points terminating in a bulbous tip, the voltage being developed in the  junction will be in proportion to the temperature difference.

By Spring of 2007 my Aneros journey made me  feel like a 17th Century Explorer from Spain or Italy of Portugal only instead of the New World I was seeking the New Orgasm.  I was in control of my ship, its equipment and the humanity  that drove it and most importantly I had confidence in myself.  I also was aware I was headed somewhere  but I wasn't totally sure what was out there. 

I was having a 90% success rate with Super O's each session.  I knew how to make sure I had them but I wasn't always consistent in the results.  Some sessions were deep and intense producing toe curling  agonizing ecstasy while other were just meager and ok.   Each one was as different as a finger print.  I learned that Super O's were very nuanced and that depending on how you guided them, they could tumble you like a wave on the shore and abandon you or they could caress your brain and transport you to nirvana. I learned that I could get good advice from others on what worked for them but that  experimentation of what worked in my own body was essential, even if it went against what others did.    I also learned from Senior members here about A Lesses.

One of the things I did that delivered me my first pleasure was ignoring the advice to not let anything touch my penis in at the start of,  or during an MMO.  Indeed it was the act of involving my cockhead that opened the doors of ecstasy for me; pressing my erection on a smooth softness of a sheet covered duvet in a hotel was essential to trigger my orgasms.   My months of frustration over not getting anything to happen changed when I made that discovery.

When I do MMO's my cock  behaves very much like a thermocouple in a heater.  The sensuality and erotic pleasure my cock head senses turns on my prostate orgasm just as a thermocouple switches on a heater; the fuel to keep the fire burning is in my breathing, my mind and my nipples.   My cock is a strategic part of my P orgasms.  The extreme pleasure of a prostate orgasmic spasm deep in my anal canal starts in my cock head and flows to my prostate;  then it bounces back and reverberates in my penile bulb (or cock root) and my sulcus (under my cock head) as well as in my cock slit.  The convulsive ecstasy of prostate orgasm echoes back and forth from deep in my anus to my genitals where it caresses my penis, tingles my cock slit and makes my penile bulb pump and then , if I manage it well, it travels up my spine and soaks into my brain giving me the profound euphoria that we all talk about here.

In the Spring of 2007 I set out to accomplish 2 things.  Learn to do an A Less so I could have orgasms where ever and whenever and without an Aneros.  The other thing was to see if I could use my rigid penis better as a tool to unlock and enhance MMO's and learn how to apply this knowledge.  

My mastery of A Less was the first goal that I passed that Spring.  I had a planned stay at the hotel overnight on Friday night due to a late meeting that wouldn't  get me back to the room until 9 PM; I knew the drive home was impossible so a booked the room an extra night.  With the prospect of a Saturday morning departure and no rush to get out of the room in the morning I set my sights on working on A Less that Friday night. 

So at 1 AM I assumed my normal position of stomach down,  left leg bent up holding my pelvis and penis slightly off the mattress but barely touching.   I began to do my breathing and my anal and pelvic floor contractions.   The best analogy I can offer to what followed is the act of trying to start an old car that has been laying dormant for years.  I cranked and cranked most of the time getting nothing.  However every few attempts I got a flutter deep in my anus.  After 4 hours of concerted effort, finally the flutter turned into a gentle elegant anal orgasm.  Then it died. 

For the next hour I continued the regimen and got better and better results each time.  At 4 AM I was swimming in a sea of sweet orgasmic bliss.  That night I discovered that A Less orgasms are more gentle and take a lot more concentration to sustain and amplify than an Aneros session.  However, for me now  they are much easier to start.

That was years ago.  Now I do an Aless almost every night and have been doing them for 19 years.  Sometimes it is 10 - 15 minutes and sometimes it can be an hour.  My achievement of the goal of having A Lesses whenever I wanted   was made exponentially easier by a second discovery I made.  

Going back to the importance of my cock in launching my MMO's, I set off that summer to experiment with various means to stimulate my penis.  I tried a TENS Unit and hated it.  I tried edging and had some success.  However it was the discovery of the cheeks of my wife's derriere as a launch pad that granted me the "keys to the kingdom." 

She sleeps in the summer in my Tee Shirts, which I find to be more erotic than fancy negligees.  As a result her sexy tight bare bottom is exposed.  I sleep nude.  We also wind up spooned together many nights in early morning.   The coming together of these 2 events was the discovery of the path to deep and intense P orgasms for me.  First was the fact that I get the best response for Prostate Orgasms from doing them between 3-5 AM in the morning when sex hormones in my bloodstream are at their peak.  The second was a result of the first discovery, that I need to be horny and erect to have a good session.

So it was on a sultry July night that my MMO experience got booted to a higher level.   Due to the heat  my wife was virtually nude wearing a "wife beater" undershirt and nothing on her bottom;  I was nude.   I rolled over to spoon her as I often did,  fortuitously placing my morning erection between her ass cheeks.  As luck would have it my sulcus was touching the opening of her anus and was actually slightly pressing against it.  The heat of the air and the body heat of her anus kissing my cock head was incendiary.  From out of nowhere the thunder of powerful orgasm crashed deep in my anal canal.  It took my breath away.  Then unbidden there was another thunderous orgasmic convulsion.

It was like being sucked into a whirlpool, there was no swimming out of it.  As she was sound asleep I tried to be as still as possible as I was being ravaged by orgasms.   I reached around her to caress her breast under her shirt.  She sighed as my tender caress made her nipple stiffening in my palm as my cock head pressed gently on her anus.  It was like pouring gasoline on the orgasmic fire now cascading in my anus.  I clearly had a tiger by the tail and I struggled to hang on.

The orgasm that launched that night lasted for almost two hours nonstop.  When it was done her anus was sloppy with my pre cum.  I discovered sometime that night as well, that is that my precum soaks into skin really fast, especially the type of skin around her anus.  Fortunately she didn't wake up before it disappeared.  I did wonder if she had any erotic dreams as this was all hapening.

A few days later I decided to test the discovery with the use of an Aneros.  Knowing that she was a heavy sleeper,  particularly in the middle of the night, I got out of bed at 3 AM and went to the bathroom.  Once there instead of peeing I lubed my Eupho, which was stashed in the vanity , put my leg on the rim of the bathtub and slid the Eupho home.   I could feel my anus' reflexive grip on the Eupho tighten as soon as I put it in.  Gasping slightly I walked back to bed with my hand holding it in as I walked.  I slid back into bed as smoothly and quietly as I could.  She was already on her right side facing away from me with her knees drawn up in a semi fetal position.  Her ass was stuck right out temping me.

Rising to her offer I grasped my cock at the base of my shaft and slid forward guiding my taut bulbous cock head to her anus as I had the previous night.  I imagined that her tight anus was kissing my cock head.  When I docked her and  felt the warm kiss of her anus on my wetted cock slit the orgasm ignited immediately and exploded.  My anus fluttered and spasmed as a hard convulsion of white hot pleasure shot deep into my anal canal.  I struggled to be still as a ravaging tsunami of aching bliss flooded my own anus.  I muffled a gasp as she sighed quietly.

I lay there tempest tossed in a maelstrom orgasm that was twisting my anal canal in chains of cascading orgasms.   My cock was lurching with each orgasmic spasm like a heavy cannon firing repeated loads as it drool precum .  It was like being on the wildest ride and all I could do was hold on.  Thoughts of what my wife might be dreaming about with the sleep wrapped sensation of my big cock head docked in her anus only accelerated and intensified the fury of my rapture.

An hour later I had to back away from her as I feared I might wake her.  I fell asleep and woke at 9 AM with her cuddled against me.  Laying there I planned that moment to share the experience I had that night with her over coffee later in the morning.   When I did a few hours later I had a great surprise.  I will share it in the next entry.

My Wife - Sex Partner, Aneros Aide and  Lover

So a few years into this prostate orgasm thing  had clicked in me.  I was rewired; rewiring It was exerting dramatic impacts on me that were impossible for me or my wife to ignore.  Oddly the first thing she noticed happened one night as she was looking at my chest after I got out of the shower.   It was the change in my nipples.  They had become darker and were profoundly erect, more than they ever had been before I began having prostate orgasms and got rewired.  In addition, just being naked in front of her erected my cock.  MMO had amplified my libido.   Prior to Aneros being naked in front of my wife at our 40 years of marriage was no big deal; I tended to remain soft unless she stimulated me.  It was suddenly different.   Having her see my penis made me hard. 

It was impossible for my wife to not notice these changes.  Beyond my bodily changes she also noticed some dramatic changes in my sexual response.  Aside from firmer and longer erections, she saw a significant thickening of the viscosity and  increase in volume of my semen when she masturbated me or did oral on me.   The first time I came in her mouth after a year or so of prostate orgasms,  she almost choked on my copious ejaculation.   She had experience from decades of blowjobs.   She was intimately familiar with the characteristics of my ejaculate, she had front row seats (so to speak).   The change in my ejaculation was difficult for her to not notice.  It was not her first time at the rodeo.

So one beautiful warm spring morning, we were having coffee on our back porch and making some backyard planting decisions.  Midway through the conversation she abruptly changed the subject from gardening plans to my prostate.  The abrupt change of direction in our chat startled me. 

The reason for her inspiration to bring the topic up was my ejaculation the night before.  That and the fact that she was staring at my nipples; they were making very distinct  "pokies" in my tee shirt as we sat there.  However it was really the intense ejaculation of the night before that really  brought the subject to the table.  During our coffee chat she said that she thought it might be a result of prostate orgasms.  I told her that she was right.

She was aware of my use of prostate massagers.  I explained the health benefits of  prostate massage as the rationale when I first started using Aneros; however she didn't really  know about the orgasm part.   I surmised then that this was the time to confess and tell the whole story, so I did.  She was quiet and attentive asking very specific questions as I gave her the whole story including Aless and the fact that I sometimes launched my Alesses in her naked derriere while she slept.  She was shocked at that last confession.  When I was done she was surprised and a little disappointed.  Her angst was over the fact that I didn't involve her earlier.

Before I go any further, it is important that I mention a few things about us and our sex life.  First is the fact that my wife is a very sexy woman.  Even as a senior citizen,  she is still hot.   She has a model's figure.  She is 6 foot tall and 130 lbs.  Her figure is still 34-26-35 with a D cup bra.  Her tits don't sag, they are perfectly tear drop shaped with perfect nipples.   To me they are very - very appealing, they turn me on big time.   She has a few wrinkles that show her maturity but those wrinkles give her a look of  elegant sophistication and femininity that is subtly appealing. 

She has the pepper and salt grey hair that looks as if it was dyed that way, but it is natural.  The way it is cut is very stylish giving her the appearance of youth tempered by age in an elegant manner.   Her tits and derriere are her greatest physical assets.  Young men still ogle her at hotel pools.

Secondly I need to describe our early and current sexual relationship, particularly when we were in our 20s.  We have been together for 53 years and married for 51.  We first dated in 1971, the era of free love. We knew that we were intended to be together by fate but we didn't want to have sex until we knew we were ready.   As bizarre as it sounds we decided that we would test our relationship  by not fucking.  Instead of intercourse we agreed everything else was on the table.  So we 69ed, masturbated each other, did oral sex on each other and she pussy slid on my erection.  But we never had penetrative penis in vagina sex.  This was unheard of in the 70's when people fucked at the drop of a hat. As a result we learned a lot about each other's sexual anatomy, erotic landscape and orgasmic response.  This turned into a huge asset later on.

Lastly was the issue of our genitals.  I am a very tall guy (6'6") with a proportionally very large  penis.  Her vagina was and  still is tight for me.  Fucking for her can be painful even when she is aroused, even more so now post menopause.   As a result of our history of intimacy and our physical limitations, our preferred sexual activities did not involve penetration.   They were and still are 69,  erotic massage, mutual masturbation as well as oral sex on each other.  For my part I love doing cunnilingus on her.  When I have two fingers deep inside her vagina massaging her G spot as I am suckling her clitoris like it was a teat she comes so hard she literally  hears bells in her ears.  We obviously do fuck (as we have 3 kids)  but I have to be careful as my length and girth can cause it to be very painful for her.  I can easily bump her cervix if I am not careful.  Our sex tends to be slow and tender with a lot of kissing, partial penetration and minimal athleticism.

The last thing I would add is that she was a virgin when I met her.  She also had no real sexual experience when I met her other than being felt up and fingered.  She had never seen a penis before, yet alone an erect one and had never seen a man ejaculate.  When she saw my cock erect the first time she was almost overwhelmed.  When she masturbated me the first time she shrieked when I came.   As a result, early on (and to this day) she was infatuated with my erect cock and was addicted to making me ejaculate herself and watching the show.  She adores watching the ivory river semen pour from my cock slit.

That day on our porch over coffee she opened a new chapter in our sex life involving prostate orgasms.  So as a result of her history of masturbating and fellating me she said that she wanted to see and be part of my prostate orgasm sessions especially the Aless ones in her derriere.  Keep in mind that I was only a newbie at that point, as such my MMOs were very tenuous and easily subject to distraction and collapse.  I nervously agreed giving her the caveat that I was not sure I could "get in the groove"  with her distracting me.  Our pattern when we have non intercourse sex is for me to be the leader. Her involvement meant I would have to cede leadership to her.  At first this seemed a little daunting given my limited experience.  Little did I know that ceding the lead role in Aneros session to her would be a huge turn on when we did it.

We followed the normal sex play routine we do when we plan of having sex that night.  This includes frequent kissing during the day, playful slipping of my hands in her pants to caress her Mons when we are sitting together and foot massages.  For her nothing gets her pussy juicier than a foot massage.  A one hour foot massage will make her so wet she will soak her pants.  Erogenous spots can be quirky.

So when we got in bed that night I decided to go with nipple play on me as the way to bring her in.  i figured that the sensation of her teasing my nipples was a good stimulant to help me over come any self consciousness.  I also decided I would guide her in prepping me and inserting my massager as a means to turn her on.

I decided to have her insert it in a position that I never use when I do a session alone, with me on a all fours, doggie style.  This position spread my ass cheeks and made my anus easy for her to do external massage on, lube and prep me with a finger.  It also made my anus easier to access and manipulate once I started.  She has always been a spontaneous person in our non intercourse sex, a characteristic she exercised that night.  While I was expecting a simple lube and insertion she decided to prime me with 30 minutes (or so but who was counting) of digital - lubed anal massage and analingus.  I was in heaven as her tongue penetrated my anus.  As she tongued my opening she gathered the drooling precum from my cock slit and carefully massaged my cock with my own precum as lube,  avoiding my cock head; she knew my ejaculation triggers.

I pulled away when I felt that her loving touch on my ball sac and hot tongue on my anus  was going to cause me to spew my semen.  I changed positions, laying on my back with my legs bent and parted.   I pulled her lips to my left nipple.  I have no idea why but my left nipple is the more responsive of the two.  Having suckled three babies she knew about nipples and nipple pleasure.  She has taught me a lot about my own nipples.  So with her lips sealed around my areola she sucked it firmly into her lips.  With my nipple and the skin around it in the hot wet suction of her mouth she teased and flicked my erect nub with her tongue  as she nursed from my nipple.  The result was incendiary.

The orgasmic tension in my anus wound up as tight as a steel spring making me gasp as she suckled on me.  in a few minutes the P waves started and the Aneros began to stimulate my prostate.  I cradled her head as I nursed her and the Eupho did its luridly pleasurable work on my prostate.  In no time I was shuddering in agonizing ecstasy.  I felt closer to my wife  that I ever did when we fucked.   The precum was coming out of my cock slit in pulses that echoed the orgasmic spasms that were driving me crazy.

That session lasted two hours.  It was the longest session I had done to date.  At the end of two hours my cock was so wet and her pussy was so slimy we silently went to an old favorite:  "riding the rail.".  She pulled out the Eupho,  straddled my hips as I lay on my back and she lowered her clit onto the underside of my cock head as it lay on my belly.  She slid back and forth in incrementally small thrusts rubbing her clit in the cleft  under my cock head.  Thrusting her pelvis back and forth so her rigid clit massaged the underside of my cock head delivered a flooding ejaculation for me and a shuddering orgasm for her.

That was our first session together.   We would discover additional ways to involve her but i will save those for another entry.  I will also tell of our first paired  Aless practice in her derriere.