First time

Welcome to a world of pleasure.

i highly recommend thoroughly reading the above link Rumel sent you, as well as the wiki male gspot page (in the above link). 

Fun riding!!

Welcome,

Indeed the wiki and rumel's link will cover lots of questions you may have. I was new at one point (still am tbh,) but I've tried lots of stuff before I found the aneros. If it's a size issue thats got you kind of nervous, then don't worry too much, the helix is really easy to insert, and should be for you if you can fit 3 fingers. But read the info provided because that will answer most of your beginner questions and concerns.

Try to accept every session as a learning process or journey, instead of chasing a final destination. You will hear that a lot, but it's true. I believe the wisdom in it is constantly being refined and redefined in the minds of all of us who practice, throughout all skill levels.

Good hunting