I made a journal entry about this, but I want to know if I'm interrupting this right. I'll just copy and paste my journal entry completely. Let me know what you think:
[Have you ever had just gotten through a stressful day or broke a bad fever, and you feel sorta jittery, out of it, a little nauseous, shaky legs, a little more sensitive to sensation, maybe a mild anxiety along with a mild fatigue?
Well, I think I'm at that point, and over done the aneros. Yesterday morning, I was flush with heat, comforting and prickly. But I began to notice my body needing recovery time. (or rewiring time, actually).
It began with bad night sleeps after afternoon practice, followed by unusually deep sleeps even after recovering from bad nights. I noticed a shakiness in my legs and generalized 'out of it,' overly-caffeinated feeling.
Then yesterday after the day's work, I decided to sit and play Skyrim, something I hadn't done in a while, and my body just sorta starting feeling like I've been through a gauntlet kinda day. As though my body said 'Finally, no more outside demands. All right, boys, let's do a good clean up here and get things back in shape.' I felt that achy, fatigue that comes after a hard days work or after doing something particularly stressful
It's pretty well described here: https://community.aneros.com/forum/general-discussion/so-scared-after-first-use/
It would seem my body is having that somatic response to deep massage. And once I accepted it as part of rewiring process, my pelvic floor began to bloom with pleasure. It seemed the symptoms and pleasure are now following a parallel track.
So, I'll be taking another day off for recovery, and enjoy the random erections, contractions, pelvic heat and congestions, the twitchiness as well as the other symptoms. Maybe I'll consider doing less than 90min... maybe...]
Is this a normal experience that's part of the rewiring process?
I was having sessions that ran into hours at one point. I had one that went from some point in the night to the afternoon - not constant but probably more on than off. I had been averaging 3 or 4 hours and at some point AI called me out and said it was too much lol. I did in fact find that after a marathon session I felt a little off. Balance, vision, that type of thing. So I backed off some. I guess I target that 90 minute mark, give or take, and it seems to have settled those odd feelings some. I do vape beforehand but still I feel more normal now afterwards. So I do think there's a threshold where too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Those long sessions felt great but they kind of became something where the work outweighed the pleasure?? I used to go until I had to call it - ok, I have to get yard work done, or I have to go to an appointment, etc, but when I reach that calm around that 90 minute mark, I go for that blended climax now. The prostate continues to want more but it's kind of selfish IMO. It wants and wants and if you feed it it will gladly take it but like I said, the effort at some point becomes if not excessive, them, calling it what it is, less pleasurable. That's not to say big things haven't happened in that extended window but if you can have another session within a reasonable amount of time, save it. That's been my challenge if late. As the experience grows, it does get easier and you just want to chase it. But that's the point of diminishing returns. 90 minutes has kind of become my sweet spot but you'll have to zero in on yours.
@321jsjs123 sounds like you’ve learned from your previous experience! 90 minutes is probably the longest session for me! If I haven’t had a superO by then, I will finish the session with a traditional orgasm! I don’t use any drugs prior to or during a session so my sessions are what I would call normal!
@fred27 same I think 90 minutes has been my longest session mark, maybe once or twice I went past that into 2 hour territory, but only a few times in the last 22 years. And some drugs have helped me extend past an hour, but if I'm on certain things, I sometimes can't last 15 minutes! I like substances that enhance sexual stimulation and if the dose is right, I'm feeling super good for up to an hour and the ending is so exquisite!
Oh, wow, I guess I have been over doing it. I read that it takes a while before the prostate warms up, and when it does, I'm always saying to myself, 'oh, one more set contractions.' But after taking a day off I was perfectly fine.
Then, for the next session I had... another 90 min session. *cough* Oh well 😛
And I tried a coconut oil suppository and it seemed to work better, but after maybe 20 minutes, I start feeling that slight burn where the anus itself and sphincter grips the aneros, like having a bowel movement after eating spicy food. I'd have to relube and it'd be good for another 10min or so. Maybe it's something my body will get used to? Like the feeling to purge is nearly all gone now, and putting in and removing has gotten a lot easier
But I've read people putting two whole ice cube-sized suppositories, so maybe I'm still not using enough. I don't get those unpleasant coconut oil leakages nor do I get 'coconut farts.'
Ah, well, live and learn 🙂
@kahless you’ll find once you’ve had some great sessions the prostate is always ready and doesn’t need to warmup! Also when you reset for a day or two things are ready and willing to go! As for lube try aloe Vera gel or any of the anal lubes and you’ll be able to go for over an hour with just a small amount!