chastity cages for submission

Posted by: @skyler-penny

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I need some help/research on the idea of wearing a chastity cage as a way of being more submissive in the bedroom to my wife but don't know where to begin or how to approach it?

While this forum does occasionally mentions the use of chastity cages in conjunction with Aneros use for the purpose of discouraging penile stimulation, in general the men on this forum are not necessarily focused on femdom relationships. For more information about the use of chastity devices I would suggest you join Chastity Forums and/or Chastity Mansion for more thorough discussions of chastity devices and femdom relationships.

Posted by: @skyler-penny

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... will wearing a cage help suppress my desires for viewing porn or wanting to crossdress??

I seriously doubt wearing a chastity device is going to suppress your inherent desires to explore crossdressing or viewing pornography. If anything the heightened arousal from orgasm denial may simply fuel the desires even more. I would advise you to have some in depth conversations with your wife about your desires and any move toward a female led relationship.

Good Vibes to You!

Posted by: @skyler-penny

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I need some help/research on the idea of wearing a chastity cage as a way of being more submissive in the bedroom to my wife but don't know where to begin or how to approach it? and will wearing a cage help suppress my desires for viewing porn or wanting to crossdress?? cagesale.com

Honestly, I’d start with the conversation before the cage itself. A lot of guys get interested in chastity because it taps into the whole submission side of things and changes the dynamic in the bedroom a bit. Sometimes it becomes a serious thing, sometimes it just ends up being a fun occasional game. You kind of figure that out as you go.

As for porn or crossdressing, wearing a cage is not really an on off switch for your brain. Some people say it helps them focus more on their partner or puts them in a different mindset, but the cage itself is just a piece of metal at the end of the day. Well... usually metal anyway.

I’d say keep expectations realistic, keep it light at first, and see if the dynamic between you two feels exciting naturally instead of trying to force it into being something specific.