Do you ever listen to music while you use prostate toys?

Electronic mixes are definitely my go-to. The beat helps me calm down and stop thinking, and having almost no vocals keeps me from getting distracted. Check out The Grand Sound channel on YouTube—there are lots of great mixes. New age also works well for setting the mood.

I want to build a playlist with a variety of genres and styles to see how it works. I think I should definitely avoid adding metal to it, but it's worth trying at least once, isn't it? 😅

I have a weird relationship with music and sex, of any kind, self or partnered. Back in the day when my wife and I were dating and I had roommates, we used to listen to music to hide sounds from them. We got kind of loud sometimes, her especially! So now when I listen to any of that music, I am constantly reliving the sex we had. There are Bob Marley songs I cannot listen to anymore and it makes me so sad!! (We were going for something that had some kind of vibe, we didn't know what we were doing, sex was new to both of us and we just kinda winged it with music...turns out we both made bad music choices lol the music we picked worked at the time great, but I had no idea the lingering effect my memory would play...I mean when you are having anal sex for the first time in your life and her life and her pussy is ejaculating like a fountain in your face during some serious ass pounding and a Marley song is playing, you don't really have the same relationship with that song, or even artist, ever again!!!!)   Instrumental stuff like jazz worked best because I couldn't remember what songs were playing during whatever we were doing.

Once I tried to listen to a band's music during an Aneros session. And I instantly said "nope, I cherish this band and their songs and I don't want to marry my orgasmic experiences with this particular music" and I never ever listened to music during any kind of sex thing ever again.  I have tried to listen to some Shibby files, not the trigger oriented ones just the sounds of blowjobs and wet pussy ones, and that is quite erotic with some drugs thrown on top 😉  And I have wanted to try some electronic music to see how that would work, but I don't listen to EDM kinds of music and don't know where to start I feel like at 50 years old I'm not really in the running to start listening to that kind of music cold turkey after all these years! 

I guess that's where I'm at with music and sex play!

I never had a connection between music and sex until I found some dance-club style mixes with heavy bass and moaning thrown in. I wouldn't masturbate to them normally, but with prostate play the music almost makes me contract automatically, which leads quickly into that losing-control feeling. I would probably love some things like shibby files, if I liked women. I haven't been able to find something similar with men that I've actually enjoyed.