Hi all
I have a friend she has a problem in that she orgasms about 1-2 minutes after penetration and thrusting
she can continue after orgasming for more sex after taking some short break of a few minutes
she has orgasms very easily even just by thinking about erotic things sometimes. She often leaks a lot of fluids in her pants throughout the day
she wants to know how to last longer before orgasming,
I dont know what kind of orgasms she is having from what she has described to me some of her orgasms are pretty long lasting and full body
however what she has described to me now seems like she may be getting strong clitoral orgasms because she has to take breaks between orgasms
she is 18
Zaneblue i am assuming you may be able to help me in this regaurd, with your vast knowledge on female orgasms but of course any help from anybody will be greatly appreciated
thanks!
I have a friend she has a problem in that she orgasms about 1-2 minutes after penetration and thrusting
she can continue after orgasming for more sex after taking some short break of a few minutes
she has orgasms very easily even just by thinking about erotic things sometimes. She often leaks a lot of fluids in her pants throughout the day
Sounds like the perfect girl to me! 😀 😀 😈
Seriously...who has EVER complained of a girl not lasting long enough? 😯
Sounds like she is taking extremely high dosages of fishoil...but zaneblue should be able help if anyone would know its her....she has up to 45 orgasms a day....
Hi nervetweak!
Your friend sounds very much like I was when I was 18 years old . . .
I think this problem may very well take care of itself with some age
and experience.
However, I would start out with a check-up and discussion with her gynecologist,
to eliminate any physical problems there.
Another thing that comes to mind, is the possibility of her clit rubbing on her
nice silky panties or something in her clothing that is rubbing or stimulating
her clitty???
The only thing left, IMHO, is a mental orgasm or a combination of mental and
maybe movement in her chair or the tightening of her PC muscles or ALL of
these!
Hope this helps!
Later, Hlaser99
She has a high testosterone level and im convinced this has something to do with it
it almost sounds like psas to me (persistant sexual arousal syndrome)
she was also on antidepressants before which i hear can sometimes do things like this
Well then maybe she should be taking estrogen to counterbalance it?
On the other hand...where can I find some of those pills for my chick 😀 ...shes got almost the opposite syndrome lol
"On the other hand...where can I find some of those pills for my chick ...shes got almost the opposite syndrome lol"
have her eat animal testicles or adrenals or more spicy food garlic, ginger etc
but especially the testicles
no joke it will work but im not sure if its good for her in the long run because it will raise testosterone levels
Hmm....I orgasm pretty much on penetration but I can just keep going and have more. So it sounds like clitoral orgasms. Does she come this way just from oral (no penetration)?
The simple solution for her coming too fast is to up the frequency of sex. The more clitoral orgasms a woman has, the longer it will take her to have them. You could also get her a vibrator and that will temporarily desensitize her and slow down her clitoral orgasms. Both of these suggestions only work if it's clitoral orgasms she's having. If they are vaginal, not sure--you could always switch to some foreplay and allow her to recuperate
Nervetweak,
It's fascinating how one man's meat is another man's poison. As you've seen, there are men who envy you for your relationship with your friend. As some men know, the opposite condition can be quite disconcerting to both partners. No matter, it is sufficient that this is something that she wants to change. As you've mentioned anti-depressants have indeed been linked to such conditions (as with Priapism in men) as has hormonal imbalance.
If you are okay with the allopathic route, I would suggest consulting with a good internist or perhaps an endocrinologist. Outside of that, a holistic doctor would be a good alternative. In my area there are several that have medical degrees as well, which can sometimes give them more to draw from. But if she is pretty much in a constant state of arousal (as you've alluded to), I'd get this checked out.
Of course you certainly might try Zane's solution while you're at it, (it couldn't hurt), but it seems to me like something else is going on here.
BF Mayfield