What type of orgasm am I feeling?

Your journey sounds somewhat like mine,what models or model do you have?I would just keep enjoying and start your sessions with no expectations just "I wonder what will happen today".In my opinion over 50% of this is from your mind.

@evergreen i have the Helix Trident (use this the most) and Progasm.

if i had more frequent sesssions i would use the prograsm more as it definitely feels more intense - i will give this a go later in the week

tonight my sesssion involved much more fast paced 'auto-fucking' and pleasure that came with it, and occasional feelings of an edorphin release (waves?) after.

some of the 'orgasm' feeling reminded me of the end of a traditional orgasm when the pulsating continues but ejaculation has finished

I had a similar experience. Usually my penis is not involved in the action at all, even during great prostate and full-body experiences. Until one session a few months ago, where I started having fully involuntary penis contractions that were maybe 20% the strength of an ejaculation. Which is to say the contractions were very weak, but they kept going for like a minute straight. I had that moment a lot of people describe where they look down at their penis and can't believe what's happening. I think I became too distracted watching it bounce and strain all on its own, and I lost the moment.

I don't know how it happened, and I haven't been able to recreate it since, but I loved the feeling... if that 20% was somehow dialed up to 200% I don't even know what I'd do. It never ceases to amaze me how I can still experience new things after so many years.

@clenchy thanks for your reply. I managed not to do that and enjoyed the sensations but they did fade away - this made think it was a type of orgasm

are the sensations in the penis likely to get stronger?

i feel as though the sensations in my prostate could definitely get stronger but as i start to think i am conscious i've begun "chasing it"

what should the reaction be when i feel the buzzing / pulsating? hold the contraction and keep enjoying?

@steadyeddy

In my opinion, a "don't interfere" approach could work well since you can already get an auto-fuck response. You need to believe in your body's ability to execute the right moves with the right timing to generate feedback loops. Once you have involuntaries going, each time you interfere, by relaxing something that's contracting, or contracting something that's relaxing, it's like you think you know better and you're just fighting yourself, when you need to let go of control.

In other words, you can flex, relax, contract, hold you breath, do anything you want until you get involuntaries, but as soon as you get there, don't touch anything ! Don't hold, don't try to relax more, these things will happen when they need to happen. In fact the whole experience will be involuntaries. 

Hope this helps, that's just one of the way to do it but with some luck it just could be right for you. 

@zentai this is really helpful. I do find myself thinking about how to respond when things step up - when my body tenses, I sometimes think i need to relax a little, or when the involuntaries start and my heart is racing and i feel pleasure in my prostate i am wondering whether i need to step up contractions or relax, knowing that i should just maintain what i have been doing is good to know 

@steadyeddy

Like I said, it's just one way to approach this, but yes, if your body is clenching and tensing on it's own, (which is already quite something) and you try to relax, I'll say it again, you're just resisting the process. Acknowledge the feelings, be a spectator, don't jump on stage during the play thinking you're a better actor... 

@zentai @clenchy

during tonight's sesssion i had some more "pulses" where it felt like my prostate was contracting it was pleasurable. occasionally i could feel this in my penis or just in behind my penis. some of this had me wimpering, ie. it felt really good

i had a new experience when i switched to my progasm - i really concentrated on "letting go" and not trying to force it, including not clenching my buttocks as involuntaries happened (i've noticed i do this a lot without thinking) and also not tensing, including my head as if i was trying to cum traditionally

i got the involuntaries going which lead to pleasure pulses in my prostate and around my penis. towards the end of the session i was really tensing less and allowed the pleasure to build, focussing on it. i start fantasing about previous sexual encounters which helped me focus on the pleasure - it built and built, similarly to the lead up to a traditional orgasm, and then i was hit with convulsions - my ass and body contracting on my toy repeatedly for at least a minute - the pleasure largely went but i felt nice waves going through me which felt like a release - I guess this was some sort of orgasm, and some kind of progress

@steadyeddy

That's awesome ! That whole minute of convulsions in particular must have been extra sweet. You don't have to answer this, but did the progasm feel really big, like filling your whole abdomen, or your whole body ? 

Congratulations and take a moment to thank yourself, YOU made that happen and you can definitely do it again. I'm sure the next orgasm will build even higher. Take care !

it was definitely the most significant moment on my journey so far, and lots of pleasure on the way.

@zentai it felt at times when the progasm was drawn in that i was filled up, but not perhaps to that level. i will keep it in mind for tonight/tomorrow's session which i plan to have. 

any more tips welcome

@steadyeddy

sounds like you’re making good progress! When you feel the progasm is pulled in, relax and focus on the head as it touches your prostate! As you breath in and out, you will feel the head kiss your prostate and it will respond with intense pleasure - continue this and you will be rewarded with orgasms of building intensity!

Posted by: @steadyeddy

I have been using the aneros on and off for over 10 years now. This year for the first time I feel like I've had a real orgasm with it.

In short, the waves of pleasure build and the aneros is pulsating inside me to a build where I can feel throbbing in my penis. This lasts for at least the length of a traditional orgasm. The pleasure is not as intense as a traditional orgasm but feels really good.

Any suggestions/comments?

Thanks,

J

Man- I was just about to write the exact same post today and just saw this! Bizarre: I've been using the Aneros (on and off) for about 15 years. Many different models. I'd really just given up on it, but I tried the Helix Trident Syn for the 1st time and WOW- I really feel like I had a breakthru session with it (Finally!). I'd gotten some involuntaries, a hard on and mild "nice" feelings with the Aneros in the past, but never understood what all these other people were raving about. But this time, I really felt something stronger against my prostate and tried hard not to be alarmed by the unexpected feelings the aneros produces. I think there was post about this called "Terror At The Gates" It's easy to lose focus when these uncontrollable and new physical reactions suddenly take over our bodies.

In any case, my heart was pounding in its chest and the blood rushing in my ears as if I was gonna have a heart attack. The Helix Trident really went to work against my prostate in a discernable way and I started to cover my mouth with my hand to stop the teenage girl squeals that I couldn't help but vocalize. It was wild! Not a HUGE penile orgasm like I would traditionally expect, but much more of a full-body "sensual/erotic massage" in my backdoor that seemed to build in waves coupled with some intense, endorphin head rushes. It really felt at one moment that time stopped for a few seconds and I reached some sort of full-body silent blackout while clutching my pillow as if my life depended on it. Weird.

The pleasure was certainly more subtle though, with peaks and valleys that came and went 2-3 times. It ended when I rolled onto my hands and knees, the pulsing returned again with some erotic feelings, but then my stomach suddenly contracted inwards and my abs literally cramped Hard- ouch (I've heard this happening to others). I stopped at this point, energized and excited at my new progress. But my abs still hurt the next day as I write this- as if I'd just overdone too many crunches at the gym. But the whole experience absolutely felt positive, fun and encouraging after so many years of feeling disappointed and putting the Aneros's away in their box to gather dust. Can't wait to try it again now! 

@clenchy

I had feeling come over me this past week ,I had fell asleep with a helix syn trident an later I got up to pee,and felt the finger up my butt, after relieving myself ,I pulled it out put a couple drops of lube ,on it an put it back into me. went back to sleep after 3 or 4 more hours ,asleep,I was shaving and leaning on the counter bumping the back curl the finger moved a little forward ,it caused a release of precum , and my dick was only 20% hard , the felling was on me in a flash, I kinda like the release,lucky I hand my hand close to catch the liquid.  

@donpelon415

fascinating - would be good to hear your progress. I have had a break but will be looking to have a few sessions again