Use of Relaxants?

One suggestion I've heard is a little alcohol. Maybe a half pint of beer. Not even enough to give you a "buzz".

Pure cbd doesn’t do much for me. But gummies with high cbd to low thc ratios work nice for me, like 5/1 or even 10/1. That tiny amount of thc really seems to set the cbd in action... but that is illegal where you are, and maybe only available on the (cue eerie music) dark web, so obviously I don’t condone it.

Try taking one or two puffs cigarette with the toy in. If you are a very occasional or non-smoker, that might relax the heck out of your sphincters and you for enough time to get things going. It did for me the couple times I did it. If you gave up cigarettes, ignore this advice! It’s not worth it.