The Crimsonwolf Method: PreWiring and the Confident Boomerang

@techpump these attached pictures are my two dildoes - one is 6” (pink) and the other is 10” (black). Both are 1.5”d and are the perfect size for me. I ride them on my knees with my ass in the air and slowly backing onto them then proceed to rock in and out. Usually start with the smaller one and after a few minutes do the longer one. Pleasure builds into one long orgasm!

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@techpump 

I've been thinking about getting a sex swing and having it hanging low above the bed, just above the mattress so it would be easy to get in and adjust... I've been using foam blocks too, I have two that are U shapes cut from upholstery foam so that on my back, I can tilt my pelvis a bit and bring it under me and still have room for the Aneros arms.

I saw some cool foam shapes in online stores but the reviews point to them being mostly low quality, not firm enough, smaller than advertised and so on. Also saw some inflatable sex chairs that had the right look, but again, they're cheap and leaky according to customers.  

I'm lucky that on my back the Ktabs for Aneros toys don't hit the floor. I'm on just a yoga mat and heavy blanket, and a folded towel under me, so its gentle padding but not that comfy, I can't sleep on it it would not be nice hahaha But yes an arrangement of foam would be good for laying on my stomach I should look into ways to make something happen in that regard. A sex swing though sounds pretty good for hanging over the bed, and I wanted to do this for my wife so she could get in it and we could do all kinds of weird fun sex positions in bed!

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Nice looking dildos you got! I should take pics of mine for this forum, I have a large variety. Most are realistic penises as I have found through the years that they simply feel the best. I don't know why, I thought it was mental, but it isn't by now after years of trying many non-realistic dildos and realistic ones and stimulation doesn't lie! I guess it is the shape of it that does it for me.

Guys, I realize that the "dildo riding" is a different approach to reach prostate orgasms than the hands free Aneros. Aneros claims "everything else is a toy", apparently with toys including dildos which have been around forever in mind. Based on the descriptions of you guys however, it sounds like dildos actually provide more intense prostate orgasms? I understand varieties of sensations is a factors for folks seeking alternatives, but with the dildo riding introduced, do you actually still enjoy or have the patience to enjoy the slower and more subtle Aneros O's? Then I figure gay guys have long figured this out. They've been obsessed with big cocks - real or artificial - since the beginning of times. Are they laughing at the tiny insertables like Aneros? Which is "a toy" after all?

@techpump it’s the shape along with the ridges which stimulate the prostate and anus. Also the gel material feels amazing when you do contractions!!😀

@seanyea still enjoy my MGX Syn Trident but do find the dildo is much more intense as it stimulates the prostate, rectum, and anus and it’s hands free when suction cup is used!😀

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Guys, I realize that the "dildo riding" is a different approach to reach prostate orgasms than the hands free Aneros. Aneros claims "everything else is a toy", apparently with toys including dildos which have been around forever in mind. Based on the descriptions of you guys however, it sounds like dildos actually provide more intense prostate orgasms? I understand varieties of sensations is a factors for folks seeking alternatives, but with the dildo riding introduced, do you actually still enjoy or have the patience to enjoy the slower and more subtle Aneros O's? Then I figure gay guys have long figured this out. They've been obsessed with big cocks - real or artificial - since the beginning of times. Are they laughing at the tiny insertables like Aneros? Which is "a toy" after all?

No man I wouldn't say that to your first question at all! I think there are varying levels of intensity, but different mechanics are involved I think. For one, there are a lot more areas inside my rectum that I know make the whole dildo experience way more pleasurable. Not that it is not pleasurable, there is just more going on inside, at least me, when I ride or use a dildo. For one, I think the stimulation of the anus is unparalleled from dildo play. Mine is extremely sensitive. Like, my wife is teasing me not really focusing on my cock and I want her to, so fucking bad, to touch it, but she is instead tickling/gently touching my thighs and my pelvis, and my balls, which can trigger a dry O if I'm really ramped up and dying for her to grab my cock, but when she touches my anus or even just like a half inch from it, BAM it's hands-free O time. Due to cancer surgery and treatments, she can't really lick me at all anymore as she has no tip of her tongue left, but when she did rim me, OMG I came every time. I'll take touching! So yes, the more stimulation I get on my anus whether it is pressure, touching, or stretching and something sliding in and out of it, the most I love it. And I can have anal-induced orgasms absolutely. (Remember, I've been at anal/prostate play for 22 years nonstop, so through time erogenous spots/areas/zones have opened and amplified!)

I get just as powerful Os from even tiny Aneros toys. Even ones that dont' go that deep, are wide at the stem, have simple body shapes, etc.. It depends on my state of arousal, and exactly when in my session I use which particular toy. I can't start with dildo play, it is a bit much. But after 1-3 toys, and at least 10 minutes, I can jump on my smallest, or use a simple 1" diameter glass g-spot wand to warm up and also milk my prostate and get my insides all ready for more intense bigger toys. So I have the patience for Aneros toy orgasms because they make me have prostate Os almost immediately after inserting them. I just wound up highly hyperorgasmic in my ass from years of play I guess!? But on occasion yes I need like 5-10 minutes for a serious big O to hit me with using an Aneros toy. And some are certainly better at giving me bigger Os than others, but every now and then, I'll be surprised. 

Some of my Aneros Os are violent and fast, the autofucking is wild and crazy; other times it is slower and more gentle when it makes me orgasm. A mixed bag for sure. BUT, my dildo-induced orgasms are usually always bigger than normal Aneros Os are. They also always feel full body while many Aneros-driven Os are not always full body Os.

From what I've learned conversing with gay men on other forums, and posts and thoughts about prostate orgasms from gay men, many gay men do not use prostate toys, and many do not have prostate orgasms, even when they are bottoms. There are different pleasures and attachments bottoms have from and for anal sex, and what it seems that straight men are into regarding anal/prostate play is sometimes foreign and strange to gay men who are bottoms. No idea why, but I read what I read. I often read posts from gay men who are struggling with the Aneros and getting orgasms from it, when they have anal sex all the time. They aren't "stretched out" or anything like that, that doesn't happen anyway. They just don't seem to get where their prostate is or how direct stimulation of it through the rectum works at all. That's when I realize that gay men are into anal sex for different reasons than just "prostate orgasm" and sometimes that isn't even a concern or desire. Lots of different dynamics to top-bottom gay sex that's for sure.

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@techpump it’s the shape along with the ridges which stimulate the prostate and anus. Also the gel material feels amazing when you do contractions!!😀

Yes for sure! You know, the glans of the realistic dildos I have are all different sizes, shapes, and textures regarding if the internal more solid core goes into the glans or not, sometimes they don't so its a very squishy glans. I don't get a lot of pleasure I can feel against my prostate from certain dildo penises, I angle them specifically, and it is usually either too much or not much of anything. What I do get a lot more pleasure out of is when the penis is oriented so the top side of the penis dildo is opposite my prostate. It can get deeper in me that way, and deeper activates something really good in me. I can sometimes feel the ridges and veins of the dildos, but if its on the bigger side, I can't discern those details, sometimes maybe if I'm laying down and driving the dildo into me by hand, I can make myself feel it, but if riding, it's all a blur. The bigger dildos I have have thicker layer of outer soft silicone and yes my anus contracts around it very hard and I love feeling that "squishy" kind of feeling during orgasm, it feels out of this world!

Aneros has taught me how to achieve MMOs, anal orgasms, Super Es, and Super Os without ejaculating. I am so addicted to the feeling of it autofucking me. It also has led me to enjoy Aless sessions that involves extreme orgasms with hard erections.

With a dildo or stainless steel wand, I have had extremely intense orgasms that always involves ejaculating. I could probably learn how to control ejaculation with these but I enjoy the way aneros does all the work. 

@techpump totally agree with all you’ve said! The feeling of the dildo sliding across the sensitive nerve endings of the anus will send me into Os every time! As a straight man, I keep discovering more pleasures to be enjoyed through each of my dildoes! More pleasures from Aless as well!

@fred27 Hello, I’ve been reading a lot of your posts and feel like you have a lot of experience with Aneros. I’m 35 years old and have been using the Aneros Helix model. I’ve been using it for about 2 months, typically one day on, two days off.

@fred27 Can you see on video how you get an orgasm from a dildo?

@val73 sorry but I do not post videos! You’ll have to take my word for it!!😀

@will704 I enjoy waking up to Aless before getting out of bed! It’s like my anus/rectum/prostate are slowly waking up and giving me intense waves of pleasure as I can feel my rectum “breathing in and out”! My anus responds with twitches and tingling and my prostate slowly grows larger! An awesome way to start the day!😀

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Aneros has taught me how to achieve MMOs, anal orgasms, Super Es, and Super Os without ejaculating. I am so addicted to the feeling of it autofucking me. It also has led me to enjoy Aless sessions that involves extreme orgasms with hard erections.

With a dildo or stainless steel wand, I have had extremely intense orgasms that always involves ejaculating. I could probably learn how to control ejaculation with these but I enjoy the way aneros does all the work. 

That's awesome stuff!! Hey what's a Super E? I haven't heard of that one before 🙂

I’m guessing he means super erections! And yes Aneros has opened many doors for me as well! Aless is one of the best pleasures to be experienced along with my dildoes! And the first time I experienced auto f**king with my MGX Syn Trident was euphoric!

@techpump Super Erections. That is something I greatly enjoy! When it gets that hard that you notice a difference, that’s awesome!

@will704 @Fred27 @techpump The sharing of your experience gives me hope. I don't know since when I've had the impression that prostate is this somewhat tender organ you have a lot fun with but is also prone to being over stimulated and desensitized and could even damage your health if not handled properly. From your experience, however, it sounds like it has a lot more potential to generating pleasure through progressively more intensified stimulation. So gone are my worries for the pleasure I've started to experience only to be fleeting or quickly become dull and monotonous. Did you all start with little things like Aneros, and start trying bigger toys after your prostate was awakened and even rewired? Do you typically use multiple toys now for every session?

Have always enjoyed anal stimulation since grade school! Only in the last 20years was aware of prostate stimulation and massagers like Aneros. Have tried/experimented with lots of different ones over the years and have experienced different results with each one. Have pretty much settled on MGX Syn Trident and dildoes as well as several different hands free masturbators. Sometimes I have used a hand held drug store massager on my glans while using my MGX and have had really explosive intense enaculations and anal orgasms simultaneously! So definitely experiment to see what gives you the most pleasure/satisfaction!!😀

I’m like @fred27. I’ve been curious about anal since I was a teenager. I’m a happily married straight man and about 10 years ago I started experimenting with different toys. Sometimes alone, sometimes with the wife. More times alone. I started with a probe (DrJoels I believe was the name) from an adult toy store. I was always able to produce prostate fluid and would drive myself crazy with that intense feeling you get from direct contact with the prostate. Next I tried an anal probe that was larger in diameter. That thing made me cum for the first time (HFWO). I was on cloud 9. So, I kept chasing that and loved every minute. Then I found out about aneros. I got to say things kinda stopped. I worked so hard with it and read everything on here. I was at a stand still. No orgasms. No erections. Slight pleasure. I tried different devices, different lubes, different positions. I retraced my steps to think about what I was feeling with the other toys. The one I remembered the most was called Assgasm plug. It felt amazing when I had it in. Now as bizarre as this sounds, I have an old patio table that has a hole in the center for an umbrella. You know where this is going. I would put my cock thru the hole with the Assgasm in and I had an amazing orgasm. I did ejaculate hard. I remember myself contracting while I had that in and how wonderful it felt. So, I started applying that to the aneros minus the table. I wanted to figure out how to orgasm without ejaculation and have multiples. Next, I read an article on nipple play. Boom! I had my first Super O when I incorporated that. I’m very consistent in my sessions with orgasms and erections. The Super O depends on how much stress I’ve endured and how turned on I am. I’m still learning what my body likes and not every session is the same. I enjoy them all but some are more intense than others. Don’t get discouraged and don’t give up. Some guys don’t need anything but the aneros inserted and sometimes thats me. As soon as it bottoms out, I’m thrown into an intense orgasm. Keep posting your progress.

@will704 totally agree re nipple play - has definitely escalated the pleasure and intensity of the Os. Have also discovered through experimentation that only when I pull the MGX Syn Trident in as far as it will go (compressing both K and P tabs) will I have kick started the intensity of the pleasure as the head gently rubs across the prostate. Then when I contract the anal cavity and alternately relax and hold and repeat, which causes the MGX to rock in and out and go into auto mode, do I experience one intense long string of orgasms! The ribbed stem on the MGX is an added bonus as it stimulates the anus as it moves back and forth!!

@seanyea answers to your last questions are yes, and YES!!

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@will704 @Fred27 @techpump The sharing of your experience gives me hope. I don't know since when I've had the impression that prostate is this somewhat tender organ you have a lot fun with but is also prone to being over stimulated and desensitized and could even damage your health if not handled properly. From your experience, however, it sounds like it has a lot more potential to generating pleasure through progressively more intensified stimulation. 

Well it can be tender, like g-spot angled toys I've worked my prostate super hard with those and kinda got sore or just knew it was too much. They work good on me, I just have to go easier with them. With dildos, especially realistic ones, there is no angled protrusion like on g-spot toys or angled prostate toys. So it is a fuller-than-Aneros feeling on the anus, and a fuller feeling of course inside. There is pressure like a "pushing" against the prostate that is not directly pinpointing the stimulation like Aneros or g-spot/p-spot toys, and there is an intense sliding/gliding back and forth across the prostate that feels really good. So even though the riding and fucking the large dildos sounds like a prostate buster, it is actually not that bad. Actually it is fucking really good! (guys I haven't had a session or done prostate anything in 5.5 weeks help!! So much work so swamped but I'm done and on to new lighter work thank god, so instead of indulging in some sweet O time this coming week I'm out of town for some fun concert action with my wife, so I have to wait another week?! OMG when I finally have a session it will be so epic I already can't wait)

@techpump 5.5 weeks and more? You must be a perfectionist - either all the way or no way at all? Otherwise how is it possible you couldn't find time to stick an Aneros in discreetly and ride out one on your office chair?

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Hi crimsonwolf, to start a big thank you for this sharing, it is always interesting to share.

I've been using prostate massage for a long time now and it's a source of great pleasure (it's quite incredible).

To talk about my experience I once experienced a super o and it is very related to your relaxation tips, I had fallen asleep during a session, obviously the masseur had stayed in place. In the early morning, I wake up and I immediately feel the masseur who had stayed in place and what happened was incredible. My right leg started shaking, I had just woken up and I was scared enough not knowing what was going on and the trip began, waves of pleasure for several minutes (that's what it seemed to me) the head under the pillow so that no one heard me moan everything was uncontrollable, it was magical. This pleasure is so unusual... and unknown.

I tried many times and again to reproduce this trip but without any success

This state of body and brain relaxation when you wake up and very echoed with your approach that I will obviously try.

I would be very curious to read this pdf you are talking about in order to keep track of it.

Enjoy !

@seanyea I keep losing messages this is my third attempt at posting answers to your questions!! Thank god I copied my text from last lost post this time:

My last reply here got lost it was there but not here anymore 🙁  Damnit!! 

Not a perfectionist, I just don't waste time on sessions unless they are perfect, meaning the setting, the set up, the toy selection, the amount of time I have to devote to it (that is the KEY factor to whether I'll do a session or not), and if I feel like I have time to devote to it if I have any feelings of guilt where I am taking away time from work I need to get done to pleasure myself, I won't do a session unless things are lined up the way I need them to be. Too much time involved in prep for a session for it to just last like 10 minutes. Sure I'll have a few orgasms--most times I have an orgasm within seconds of inserting any toy--but I really want to enjoy it. It's like drinking crappy gin in a gin and tonic in a plastic cup at a dive bar (with an old dry lime jesus I hate that) versus a great high quality gin in a martini with a nice dry vermouth, really good olives, and in a well chilled glass. I'm a martini guy all the way! Now if I just need to crank a cum out of me I can fuck a fleshlight and shoot one off in under 3 minutes if I need to get it out of me. But I never treat prostate sessions like that. I used to rush to get session in before my wife got home from work in the afternoon and while those were good sessions, I hate feeling rushed. 

@techpump Hahaha Shall we call you a connoisseur prostate player? I wish I could somehow observe one of your sessions. Alas, guess it'll remain a fantasy!

@techpump totally agree! Prostate sessions are to be enjoyed and not rushed! If I know I will have several hours to do a good relaxing pleasurable session, I will do the prep work in advance, usually consisting of several warm bulb flushes so when session time arrives, I can experience every euphoric moment!