Pegging Equipment Recommendations

Congrats!  There may be interesting material here

https://peggingparadise.com/approaching-your-partner/

https://peggingparadise.com

Is there anything in https://community.aneros.com/forum/aneros-women-couples-corner/ ?

@Trigger, congratulations for being brave enough to invite your wife into an increasingly intimate relationship with you. As @helical mentioned @Ruby Rider 's websites Pegging: 101 & Pegging Paradise, both are excellent resources for pegging information. You may also want to take a look at the threads Pegging (with hundreds of response/posts, 28 pages, this thread can take awhile to load), Pegging 2 and My Pegging Adventures. Needing to approach your Significant Other about pegging ? please have her listen to Ruby Ryder's Podcast #112 For the Ladies and read How to Peg Your Partner. Perhaps you will find some additional information to help you and your partner there.

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Thank you Gentlemen !  I’ll get reading, this is very exciting.

 I don’t know why some of us men are so skittish about telling our women what we want in the bedroom. In my case her answer is always yes and yet I procrastinate forever…

@trigger Have you been able to have a prostate orgasm using an aneros device? I have not!  My wife has used her finger or a silicone curved wand at times when I experienced delayed ejactulation after a long love making session. My wife would definitely try if I asked.

Several years ago my wife agreed to try pegging. After reading a bunch of reviews, I purchased a harness from Spare Parts Hardware, along with a realistic dildo. I don't think she got much out of it from a physical standpoint, but she loved seeing my reaction to it, and what it does to me during sex. It also gave her a new appreciation for the effort involved in thrusting. Admittedly, it's not something we do often and I have to be in the mood for it. She's been able to give me a prostate orgasm once or twice while pegging and it was amazingly powerful. It's a nice, very occasional way to spice up our sex after many years together. She doesn't yet know that I have an Aneros (Helix Syn V), which I purchased in the hopes of improving my stamina and our lovemaking in general.

@K9BigDog Yes I do achieve prostate orgasms with Aneros, and Aless daily… 😀 

@PhotoGuy Checked out Spare Parts, thank you, the harnesses they sell look comfortable. 

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Checked out Spare Parts, thank you, the harnesses they sell look comfortable. 

You might want to make sure the harness can accommodate a Share or Feeldoe models to allow your wife to have more fun while pegging you.

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It's a very different feeling that aneros I think. Make sure you lose more lube than you think you need and start slow.

Found the sensations very different.

@rumel those look like fun, so many options I guess you just start experimenting with a couple of different models? 

When it comes to size, do I judge things based on my Aneros toy experiences? l.e. I have the Eupho, Helix, and Progasm, Progasm has never delivered a Super-O whereas the other two have.  Is it the same with pegging, do I start off on the smaller side?  

@trigger I started with one from a company called Tantus and purchased the Acute model. It's 1.25" in diameter and 5" long. Very smooth. It was a good started size and is harness compatible. Moved on to something more realistic over time and larger as I found I could handle it. Lube and lots of it are critical. Go slow and listen to your body. Communication with your partner is key. And as @jiji2000 said, it's a very different sensation. It's a more emotional connection to your partner.

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When it comes to size, do I judge things based on my Aneros toy experiences? l.e. I have the Eupho, Helix, and Progasm, Progasm has never delivered a Super-O whereas the other two have.  Is it the same with pegging, do I start off on the smaller side?

I own the Feeldoe 'Slim' (1.25"d.) and 'More'(1.625"d.) models. I enjoy the smaller model and have only tried the 'More' model a couple of times, I find it uncomfortably large for me. I suggest you start with smaller models first, you can always work your way up in size if you so desire.

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