I don’t know what happened. I think I had my first Super-O. About a month ago my Helix Trident was bouncing and my prostate involuntarily grinding upon it for the most incredible orgasm I have ever had in my life. And it was multiple. It happened I think 3 to 4 times during the session. Just amazing! Each orgasmic wave lasted 30 seconds to 2 minutes.
But now I can’t get turned on. When I do Aless, no Cowper’s fluid is generated when it always used to be. While I haven’t really gotten good at Aless, it would sometimes be pleasurable.
Through periodic kegel exercises I’ve started be able to control the muscles in that region more precisely.
I have tried to recreate my Super-O session a few times, but have been unable to. At the end of those very disappointing sessions, I’ve finished with traditional penile orgasms with the device still inserted, and it hit my prostate hard. Maybe too hard. But it wasn’t any harder than I’ve done before with no lasting side effects.
I’ve pretty much taken a break to see if my prostate will return to its former level of sensitivity but I’m beginning to have my doubts. I’m in my early 50’s and I’m thinking this is the beginning of ED.
Did I break something? Is it my age? Has anyone experienced something similar?
I suspect its the same as i was. "I've been there once I should be able to get there again". No matter what I tried...nothing. I put things away for a bit and basicly forgot how high I got but after a few times back things turned around.
The harder you try the further away it becomes. After I forgot i no longer had a point of reference so each time back was like a new time. Now I try to forget each joining and go in like it's the first time every time, most times it works and some times it just isn't meant to be.
I’m new to this Aneros stuff but from what you say, it sounds like to me you did in fact have the Super O. Congratulations!!! I don’t know much about ED... all I can really tell you is to take a week or two week break from the sessions, try to go for two weeks and let your prostate recharge and see what happens. you’ll find out real fast probably, That’s if you can hold out that long, lol. I think your body just needs to recharge from experiencing such an AWESOME orgasm, I’m not a doctor but I seriously doubt it’s the start of ED. Hope this helps in some way.. chasing that super O myself.
I have periods where my sessions are awesome several days in a row, followed by long streaks (weeks) of mediocre sessions. Then suddenly I'm back on a cycle of great sessions! Trying to recreate all the conditions that lead to a great session is an effort in futility for me. But one thing I have concluded for sure, is that if I'm worrying or stressed about something going on in life, then a good session is not likely. If I can totally relax and let my mind wander without any worries or stress, I'm likely to have a good, maybe an awesome session!
But now I can’t get turned on. When I do Aless, no Cowper’s fluid is generated when it always used to be.
I suspect this is just a temporary condition brought on by the anxiety of trying to re-create that amazing Super-O.
Through periodic kegel exercises I’ve started be able to control the muscles in that region more precisely.
That's a good idea but keep this exercise as a health regime and not think of it in terms of creating/controling a Super-O, that would be chasing the Super-O, which just doesn't work.
I have tried to recreate my Super-O session a few times, but have been unable to. At the end of those very disappointing sessions, I’ve finished with traditional penile orgasms with the device still inserted, and it hit my prostate hard. Maybe too hard. But it wasn’t any harder than I’ve done before with no lasting side effects.
Chasing after a Super-O almost invariably leads to you chasing it away. If you think of a Super-O as a powerful but shy beast curiously stalking you, invite it to approach in a relaxed undemanding manner, don't chase it away by letting your ego try to dictate the process, "Just Let Go !"
I typically advise to avoid regularly associating Aneros use with ejaculatory masturbation, one reason being well stated in @cockadoodle ’s thread Penis, NOT. Another reason being to establish a distinctly different alternate path to orgasmic pleasure, one not reliant upon penile stimulation.
I’ve pretty much taken a break to see if my prostate will return to its former level of sensitivity but I’m beginning to have my doubts. I’m in my early 50’s and I’m thinking this is the beginning of ED.
While aging, with its natural progression of bodily changes, is certainly a factor in all our lives, I doubt your temporary cycle of low libido/sexual response signals anything other than a low point in your cycle. Taking a temporary hiatus from Aneros use is probably a good idea to allow your anxiety and doubts to fade away as you realize those doubts were all self created illusions of your ego.
Did I break something? Is it my age? Has anyone experienced something similar?
I seriously doubt you've broken anything and your age is not really a factor (I'm in my early 70's). Yes, many men have experienced similar shifts in their perceptions as a result of Aneros use, you are establishing new bodily response patterns through your Aneros 'rewiring', old patterns may change or fade as your new journey unfolds. Part of this process is accepting and encouraging the paradigm shift in developing this alternate path to orgasm. Please don't get hung up in anxiety as you transition to this new reality, you are going to experience many new sensations and feelings as you progress, be open to these experiences and wonders will manifest for you.
Good Vibes to You!
Did I break something? Is it my age? Has anyone experienced something similar?
I seriously doubt you've broken anything and your age is not really a factor (I'm in my early 70's).
Good Vibes to You!
I totally agree with this, off topic but damn I had no idea you were in your 70’s, I feel so young now as I’m 21. Nothing wrong with starting early I guess.
@train-man-Anthony, 65 years old here and 4 years and a few months on my journey. At 21, imagine ALL the years of pure bliss pleasures you have ahead! I'm envious; wish I had discovered this at age 21!
Good vibes to you!
@ggringo Haha yep, hopefully all the other young people manage to overcome the whole your gay if you put stuff in your butt type of thing... whatever, there lose. I know for a fact that I’m straight and still enjoy the Aneros, if only people would come out of there shell more often, they’ll be seeing what they were missing out on all this time.
To me this can possibly be part of the rewiring process. I too went through this phase where the few weeks after I was successful with the super-o all of a sudden I couldnt achieve it. After a few weeks of the dud sessions I was back to the normal intensity and have yet to have any dud sessions. Thats been about 1 and a half years since my last dud session.
Forget what I said about lost prostate sensitivity. Decent session with Maximus last night. Amazing session with MGX tonight! Another step on The Journey. My prostate “opened up like a flower” driving MGX into it with long involuntary pulses. Steel Cowper drooling erection standing at attention with each pulse. Pure ecstasy!