How long and how far have you gone?

And by the way, I did have brief moments I'd describe as "euphoric" for the first time, which is a big win for me! 😇 

@seanyea once you’ve experienced euphoric moments, you will keep going back for more! And you can build on those experiences to keep progressing!

@fred27

Thank you for your inspiring comment. I’m amazed by the capabilities of our bodies. Until a few months ago, I never thought I’d be able to circulate energy through my body. What I’ve also discovered is that, using the cool draw breathing technique, I can draw sexual energy from my testicles through my breath and, through visualization, allow it to expand into the area of my prostate. I’ve noticed that this gives an incredible boost. When I then let this energy flow by rotating my hand over my abdominal area—counterclockwise for 1 minute and then clockwise for 1 minute—I feel my body become incredibly charged, with butterfly-like sensations. When I let these touches settle, it starts very subtly, and that subtlety is actually what I find most exciting right now. That’s it for now. It’s wonderful that a forum like this exists where I can share this.

@fred27 Yea indeed. I’m struggling with the frequency and duration. It takes some self-discipline!

@brander thanks for sharing your thoughts! Every body is different and can experience at different levels! It’s amazing where focusing on subtle twinges can lead to a buildup of pleasure and eventually orgasms of pure ecstasy!

Long time MIA.  72years old.

Started my Aneros journey in 2015, 11 years ago.

Lots of calm sea gentle waves in every session.

One strong full body very strong wave toes to top of head about 5 years ago. never repeated, so far.

Still enjoy the pleasures that do visit m sessions,  and am thankful for Aneros and my prostate health.

Like Fred7, I miss the old gang.  But am still learning from the current crew. 

cheers

P38

Let's see, for "how long" have I gone, I think you mean like length of session? Gosh that's tough there have been a LOT of session over the last 22 years!!! Hmmmmmmmmmmm I think my all time longest prostate/anal session was probably about 2 hours, possibly a little longer than that. And it was hot and heavy and intense throughout. I think I tried to use every toy I had at the time, which equaled I think about 30 toys. (There are SO many more now I'd need to reserve a whole day to use them all omg I'm a freak.)  On this session I used all Aneros toys I have, off brand toys, dildos of all kinds and makes, and it was more Os than I could ever keep track of, and my Super T at the end was one of the most powerful I'd ever had at that time. I think this was probably in 2017 or 2018. My last 5 or so years my session are usually 30-60 minutes, when I'm using adulterants I go about 90 minutes. 

For the "how far" have I gone, I think a lot of what I wrote above covers it, but I define this "how far" in many ways. Like once I wore my Eupho to the grocery store, and it was nerve wracking and a bit worrisome at times, but I did have an orgasm picking out eggs so that was pretty fun hahahaha! Sometimes when I'm going for using my biggest toys it can go pretty far and get kind of wild. I've made some silicone clones of my own cock and fucking that is quite amazing and mind-bending. I think I take it pretty far doing that! I've ridden it to reckless abandon on occasion and ride it so fast and so hard I sort of lose myself and when I orgasm from that and stop moving I'm like "what the fuck did I just do, what happened?!" I have to reality check after that sometimes. 

I don't know if this all fits here but I figured I'd share 😉

@techpump Those poor toys. Sounds like you abused them pretty badly. Do they ever enjoy it? They don't get off as you do... 🤣

@seanyea Oh my friend, if only you know what I put them through!! If any of the realistic dildos I have were attached to a real person, they would be giving me everything they owned and going out to get more by any means necessary lololololol Yes I use these toys so much sometimes I don't know how they are still holding up. Like my old Aneros models from 2004-2006, they are still like brand new and I've used them hundreds of times by now. Hell they know my ass better than I do! I will say that the serious trip is fucking my own cock. It is such a surreal experience, every time, that we humans have invented ways to actually mold our own erections and then we can do whatever we want to it. I will say that no dildo I own now or in the past has ever gotten me off like my own erection has. It fits in me so perfectly, I can't describe it other than if anyone reading has the inkling to clone themselves and try themselves out inside themselves, you will know just how good you really feel!! Also gives me perfect realization of what my wife feels when we have sex. Of course, vaginally she is feeling me very different than anally, but at least I know a bit more about it all now 🙂

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@seanyea Oh my friend, if only you know what I put them through!! If any of the realistic dildos I have were attached to a real person, they would be giving me everything they owned and going out to get more by any means necessary lololololol 

Hmmm I'm not sure about the that. Usually the fuckers don't care. They just want to find new holes to fuck. It's the fukee (aka you in this case) who got obsessed and would sell everything just to get fucked more LOL

Had another great session. I think I’m getting better at it and have more control over how to get to p-wave stage. It’s an hour session and almost from the very begging started getting sensations, and involuntaries and dry orgasms ensured soon after. Had a quite a few and each one had distinctive qualities. Loved it, and I’m so happy. But I have no idea whether or when I will get a super-O. From what I’ve gathered, that’s a much more harder, elusive and not easy to repeat milestone. 

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Had another great session. I think I’m getting better at it and have more control over how to get to p-wave stage. It’s an hour session and almost from the very begging started getting sensations, and involuntaries and dry orgasms ensured soon after. Had a quite a few and each one had distinctive qualities. Loved it, and I’m so happy. But I have no idea whether or when I will get a super-O. From what I’ve gathered, that’s a much more harder, elusive and not easy to repeat milestone. 

Oh I wouldn't worry man, they'll come eventually. Honestly, I probably had them and didn't know it because I couldn't differentiate some differences between standard and stronger dry Os, and one day I don't know what it was, something clicked I was focusing on the way the toy moved on its own without controlling it, and I like "got inside the toy" so to speak and my mind blanked on nothing but this building-thing growing in my pelvis. It felt like when the blood races to my pelvis right before I cum normally. But slower this time, and the toy moved more deliberately and stronger than normal dry Os. And the toy went and went and I reeled and started this orgasm that felt like cumming normally but from inside, not through my penis. Now, I'd felt this before, but I think those orgasms were confusing. Not able to qualify properly. But this first super O, it was what I knew "my" super O was, and what it felt like. Eventually I had them every session, not every O was one, and still that's not the case, but sometimes just one, sometimes five. Never know. I have had some calm seas super Os and those come out of nowhere and I don't have them all the time. Maybe due to length or intensity of a session; probably sessions that reach an hour or so. 

I'll end with this. I know you'll have super Os and probably not too long from now based on one key thing you said that shows you are ready soon: "...almost from the very beginning I started getting involuntaries and dry orgasms ensued after that." BINGO!  You don't have to spend 30+ minutes to finally have a normal dry O. It is quick, and then they are constant. Same here. You then said "had quite a few and each one had distinctive qualities." That you have orgasms that are unique enough, in one session, to classify and qualify says everything about how your body is priming itself for a super O. I would look at your super O inevitability as simply that: not a matter of if, but when. If you weren't as orgasmic as you are, I'd say yes it might take some time and feel elusive. Since you are not that, I would say just give it time and keep doing what you are doing!

@techpump Those are some truly encouraging words! Thanks man!! Yes, it was pretty fast yesterday although I don't know if it's an exception or could become a norm down the road since you know I'm still so new to this. Looking back, I think during my short period of working with Aneros, what I've changed mostly is mentality. First, I took @Fred27 's advice and gave up expecting "anything" from every session - just let my Aneros take me where I'm taken. That helps a lot. Secondly, I started understanding everything doesn't have to be "explosive". The edging, the antsy feeling even some frustration is all part of this experience, and part of the "new" orgasms we are trying to learn!

For those who might be still looking for "tricks", I think other than focused belly breathing (don't let your mind wander around!), really feel your lower belly's up and down movements, and relax your sphincter (aka don't clench). The only thing intentional I do is when I feel the pressure is building, I pull up my pc muscles while trying to relax sphincter still... With Aneros relentlessly poking around, and your balls pulled up to your belly button, your ass will respond in miraculous ways! 

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 could become a norm down the road since you know I'm still so new to this.

Yes, it started that way for me. When I started to have dry Os after about 5 minutes of insertion, I felt like it was going to happen quicker more often, and it did. Then the Os started within 3 minutes. Then within almost 2 minutes. Then in the first minute. Now, sometimes I have an O within seconds of it being in me, and it doesn't have anything to do with how horny I am, length of time from my last traditional release (although I'll admit, if I wait like 3+ days to do a session after I've cum, those Os come really fast and furious instantly as if my ass is saying "ok fine, be that way, if you don't want to make an orgasm happen with your cock, I guess I have to be the one on the other side to take you there!!" hahahaha! I'm not sure all men here have Os quickly or if it takes time, or if some developed like I did, and probably you are developing as well.

Looking back, I think during my short period of working with Aneros, what I've changed mostly is mentality. First, I took @Fred27 's advice and gave up expecting "anything" from every session - just let my Aneros take me where I'm taken. That helps a lot. Secondly, I started understanding everything doesn't have to be "explosive". The edging, the antsy feeling even some frustration is all part of this experience, and part of the "new" orgasms we are trying to learn!

The "do nothing/expect anything" coin is important. I expected so much based on, for real, 3 men talking about their super O. I missed my small normal little Os while wondering where this monster truck O was and when it would hit. As soon as I had that first for real "OMG this is a prostate orgasm!" orgasms, all sessions that followed had all these orgasms that I know I'd felt for years before. I forgot to mention, it took me 10 years to finally realize what a prostate orgasm was and felt like, I tried and tried and tried and felt hopeless but I kept trying and one night doing a session with my wife on a 8-day cum break, some dildo play from her working me inside, and me taking over the dildo at the right moment gave me the fireworks display 4K reality of "prostate orgasm is hitting right now" and yes it was the superest of super Os and I hadn't felt that in my life before that moment, so my journey to the end of those 10 years and the beginning of the last 12 did not happen on my own. I had that moment with my wife helping me and being with me, unplanned, it was just a fun night of making out while we were on a specific sexual adventure of 13 days of waiting to have sex together and finally cum (had to do with our anniversary and other personal, very relationship-oriented themes), but it just so happened that was the moment for me. I spent too much time doing everything and expecting the world. It wasn't until I gave up all fucks and cares and worries and wonder and just went with it. And I always went with it and never counted on anything, and its been the best since then 🙂

For those who might be still looking for "tricks", I think other than focused belly breathing (don't let your mind wander around!), really feel your lower belly's up and down movements, and relax your sphincter (aka don't clench). The only thing intentional I do is when I feel the pressure is building, I pull up my pc muscles while trying to relax sphincter still... With Aneros relentlessly poking around, and your balls pulled up to your belly button, your ass will respond in miraculous ways! 

I have not spent time on the breathing aspect. I haven't pulled energy or used my breath and breathing to trigger, enhance, or move the orgasm. I have spent the last 7 years working with tantra, a particular branch of it that is "pink" tantra not red which is fully sexual or white which is completely not sexual at all but a blend of both. I can do all kinds of things with my chakras, Kundalini has been awakened but not fully mature yet, meditation is sometimes psychadelic and awe inspiring, and of course sex is even more intimate and spiritual/magical/mystical than ever before. Yet, I have not incorporated what I've learned and what I can do into my prostate sessions?!?! God how have I not done this? Why?!? Thanks for talking about this I guess I haven't been reading a lot on this forum about breathing and if I have it just didn't hit me like it did right now. I do some stomach/belly movements and contractions in my practice every day. I should think about how to incorporate this. I might even ask my guru she might have some tips. 

One thing that happens before my Super O, my anus contracts extremely hard and I can't make it relax if I think about it. I consciously try hard to make it relax but it won't. It makes the Aneros feel like it is rotating side to side ever so slightly, no idea if it is or not, but it feels that way. And for reasons unknown to me, my anus relaxes or contracts again I have no idea, and when the toy starts to move out of me my anus contracts and rams it back into me hard and fast and that space between the super clench and the toy coming back into me to hit my prostate is when my Super O hits. Then its rhythmic contractions of various speeds and intensities, and this enormous relief as orgasm washes over me. I usually don't move at all, I can't, I'm glued to the floor. And I "need a minute" after that. My body and mind are reeling and squirming when that strong anal lock starts. The toy is pushed against my prostate hard the whole time; everything "feels like it is building" it feels like the "it" is growing and "it" is going to build until something explodes. And when it relaxes, wow. It is like a miracle this happens! 

@techpump You also made a fair point to say that super-o can mean different things to different people, and everyone define their “super” experience differently. That said, from what I’ve read so far it feels like it involves certain moments of “out of control” or experiencing sensations that are so strong people feel compelled to react in some drastic ways to release that tension. Curious what you and others have to say about it.

@techpump We cross-posted. Thanks for sharing your super-o experience. That's helpful and confirms what I felt, which is that it's an experience with certain "out of control" element or feels stronger than one can handle so to speak. I'm not there yet. I mean, I enjoyed the sensations and the smaller scale orgasms and didn't want to stop, but it not yet had that "alarming" effect, for lack of a better expression. 

Please come back and share/post more. And I'm here to call @fred27 again. Hope he'll come back soon too.

I feel like my "progress report" is a little too often and too much (especially when few of the others do so), but here it goes again (I can't contain the excitement!) @techpum You're a sage. Amazing was an understatement for yesterday's session. No breathing work, and less then 2 minutes after I put it in, I was in for my first contractions and dry-O's! How could that happen! After a little while, things settled a little. Then I started using my breathing skills, but for the most part, it only took 3-5 breaths to trigger another cycle. I was spoiled like never before for two hours! It eventually became a little repetitious, so I ended the session with a traditional release (it was mind blowing).

This is better than I expected. I am going to enjoy it as much and as long as i can for now. Down the road, there's still so much I could learn from you and others who have been through this and travelled long and far on this road on how to break the bottleneck, and how to enrich the experience and add more fun to it. Thanks, man!

@techpump great summary of your experience thus far! It’s amazing to me how far my balls get sucked up inside me during my sessions! Also have experienced some immense pleasure thru stimulation in the area of my perenium! The prostate can also be stimulated through the perenium (think this is many times overlooked). I really enjoy and appreciate the shared experiences in this thread! Please continue to do so!

@seanyea please continue to update your progress! There are no real “bottlenecks “ only plateaus until the next breakthrough

I don't want to overdo it, so I refrain from having a session "just for the sake of it", and only go for it when I really feel my body calling for it. In the meantime, I practice my breath work during naps and before sleep, and actually sometimes feel like having a taste of Aless. Obviously I'm still far from an Aless orgasm and what I experience is subtle movements that are nice and sweet. I'm curious how far you've gone with Aless? Are full-blown prostate orgasms and even super-O's possible at all with Aless? 

Also, when you say prostate orgasm and dry-O, do you mean the same or different things? @Fred27 @techpump 

Aless can provide Os as well as super Os! Also don’t overlook tweaking your nipples! You will find that your prostate and anus will respond in sync and will lead to Os and possibly a super O!