Help with prostate Milking

Please see my post in the thread Prostate Milking during Semen Retention which contains links to prostate 'milking' related information resources. While the term prostate "massage” and prostate "milking” are often used interchangeably, I believe there is a distinct difference we can identify. Prostate “massage” is the act of stimulating/manipulating the prostate gland for pleasure or medical purposes, it may or may not lead to release of fluids or cause an orgasm. Prostate “milking” is the release of fluids as a direct result of prostate “massage”. The Aneros devices are prostate "massagers”, they may or may not be used as “milking” devices depending on the individuals involved. Self “milking” with the Aneros via ‘hands free’ manipulation is difficult as one usually needs to be very relaxed for the ejaculatory ducts to open and allow the fluids to flow out of the prostate. The stronger, more vigorous, muscular contractions needed to effectively move the massager create a level of tension which is antithetical to the relaxation of the gland ducts. It is possible to train the various muscle groups to alternately relax and contract to accomplish a “milking” but it will take practice. It is unnecessary to employ strong muscle contractions with your Aneros use as a “massager” to generate orgasmic feelings, hence you can employ it for many hours without triggering a “milking” response. 'Milking' your prostate and seminal vesicles of fluids can be learned. You can read a short paragraph about Prostate Milking in the “Your Body” chapter of the Aneros WIKI. You can read a longer treatise on prostate milking technique and issues from Lady Lubyanka. There is also a well written blog by Andr. titled HOW TO MILK A BULL which gives step by step descriptions of the process. For those of you interested in more information regarding prostate milking here are some links to articles/websites I've run across over the years which I found helpful in my learning. 1.) Prostate Milking 2.) Self Prostate Milking for Health and Pleasure! The male chastity community has developed a more focused interest in milking techniques/variations due to their limitation of traditional ejaculatory orgasms the following links are from such sites. 3.) Male Chastity Milking (Three Fun Ways to Do It) 4.) Different Male Milking Techniques for More Control 5.) A Lazy Domme's Guide - Prostate Milking It seems every year there are more new articles extolling the merits of prostate milking so I guess the tide of social taboos against this activity is slowly changing. My own experience has revealed the conditions need to be 'right' to accomplish a true "milking" using your Aneros and without using your hand to manipulate the massager. Generally, you need to be highly aroused, your prostate needs to be full and engorged due to arousal (an erect penis from edging is helpful but not mandatory). You should be on the high excitement plateau just before reaching the PONR (Point of No Return), then using your sphincter and PC muscles start performing very strong, rhythmic, slow paced contractions with total relaxation between contractions. It is important to maintain your arousal level, through penile stimulation if necessary, but don't take yourself to the point of ejaculatory inevitability (PONR). This may take a long time and be somewhat strenuous but you will eventually get the ejaculatory ducts to open and the drip, drip, drip of prostatic fluid. The process may not yield much fluid nor be intensely pleasurable in relationship to the amount of energy expended, it can be done, but Aneros devices (regardless of model or size) may not be the best tools for this particular activity.

The best tool I've found for performing a real self "milking" is the Njoy 'Pure Wand'.The reason for this is tri fold. First, you will be able to manipulate it precisely to massage and pressure not only the prostate but also the seminal vesicles which contain the bulk of seminal fluid. Draining the seminal vesicles will get you to that fully emptied feeling where as just emptying the prostate may leave you still aroused and desirous of further emptying. Second, you will be able to apply more pressure to force fluid movement out of the seminal vesicles and prostate than the no hands massagers (even with vibration) can do through muscle contractions alone. Third, you will be able to relax (an essential aspect of the process) while performing this manipulation.

While solo use (as shown in this video) can be very pleasurable, I suspect having a professional masseuse do this would be much more pleasant as you could really just relax into the pleasurable release to be had.

Here are a few more threads for you to review -> A question about milking, Safety of prostate massagers, Milking the prostate, Prostate Milking during semen retention, Prostate milking and Aneros usage & What's your preferred method of prostate milking?

Good Vibes to You!

Excellent response from Rummel! The Njoy pure wand is an excellent tool and is one of my favorites! The smooth stainless finish glides across the p spot effortlessly and feels awesome! Experiment with the spot that provides maximum pleasure and you will be rewarded! Start with several inches inside and slide the ball back and forth and soon you will be in ecstasy!

@supero19 here's what I do. I have been using a slightly passive, not too serious g-spot wand made for women for years and years now. It allows me to apply more pressure as needed, the upward turn is pretty slight but works perfectly.

I always start with at least 2 Aneros massagers. You've had a few Super Os so you know what prostate Os feel like. I'd try to have some prostate Os, they don't have to be supers but that helps, but I'd get at least 15 minutes into your session and make sure its sexual and arousing, with orgasms happening as many as you can get to happen. If you need more time that's fine! But I find that I can't milk anything out unless I'm taking time first to get hot for it.

I tend to have to go a little deeper than my prostate to milk. I'm surely activating the seminal vesicles, and they feel really good when I stimulate them. I do this rotation thing with the toy on them, since they are side by side I think this movement helps, and I turn the toy back and forth so the g-spot head passes over them left to right, right to left, over and over a handful of times, then I pull the toy out of me and make sure to angle it so the head pushes against my prostate and I almost pull the toy out of me making sure I've moved it across my whole prostate. Then I push the toy back in, angling it down so the head doesn't contact my prostate very much, and go back to work my vesicles more, and then the same pressure across my prostate. I repeat this a handful of times. It feels completely awesome and is orgasmic in nature. Then, I pull the toy out of me. When I do this, usually milk comes out. A lot of the time the milk doesn't come out unless I don't have a toy in me. Of course I milk some out while using a toy, but a lot of the time, its like when the toy is removed, there's "room" for the fluid to now pass through the tubing to leave my penis. Then I put the toy back in and keep doing what I was doing, and more milk will release, usually while I'm stimulating my glands inside.

When I use larger more "forceful" toys, like larger bulbous heads or sharper upturned angles, I milk thicker fluid out of me. On occasion I'll get thicker stuff to release but its not always. When I use larger toys like that I can't do all the angles inside, but I make sure to not overdo it or force any uncomfortable feelings.

I Super T at the end of every session. I think I don't only once or twice a year, and its rare for me to not Super T. I find that to be the ultimate, fullest release possible, much more release than from milking alone. I hope you figure milking out, I think if you just give it time you'll be able to do it. The feeling that something is going to come out of your penis can last over a minute sometimes, and it is a lovely feeling. Sometimes I cheat and push down into my body where my penis meets my scrotum, just maybe a half an inch or a little more, and that pushing forces a lot of milked fluid out of me. I don't think its bad to do it this way; if anything, the assistance is needed and makes the milking all the more better!!