Hanging on in there....

It's important to enjoy each ride for what it is, not for what it could have become. I value even the rides where fucking nothing at all happens as an opportunity to release obligations and relax.

Launching a nice O does get easier with practice. It's also gets easier to recognize when continuing a session won't be rewarding. Struggling against boredom or fatigue never works out. Let it go with no regrets, and come back later when you're rested and horny. NBD.

@PSLabs

Nicely said and it checked all the important boxes. Great advice for newbies and for us old timers as well!

Agree. It gets easier with time and practice, and there will still be dudd sessions even then. Knowing when to call it a day and not being too disappointed is important.

If your mind wanders - you're distracted. Bag it and come back later because you're right it isn't gonna happen that session. Happens to all of us.

Sometimes it's like "I'm bored of this. Let's knock one out", other times it's "I'm so horny. gotta bang one out".

I also know when I'm tired or real world/silly stresses get in the way that the session will be a dud. I'm still smiling for a while after having my helix in but after the euphoria fades I feel a little frustrated.

Oddly enough the most success I've ever had was when I was hungover at Christmas time.