I feel that I, of all plodders, should memorialize this day, Oct 5th, as a great milestone in my rewiring history. I thank Rumel and Rook for their wisdom and guidance, ltg for his blog, Starr as a personal patient friend and encourager, and scores of other people who have posted their own personal experiences and for many who have given me verbal encouragement in chat and on this forums.
I am a nipple guy. For the life of me, I cannot see how any of you veterans got anything going without nipple action. I am willing to learn and listen but my success so far has been engendered by nipple action focusing on priming my prostate to higher and higher arousal, pulsing, and eventually ejaculatory dry spurting. I have used edging the shaft only of my penis along with nipple play moving from right to left nipple and back, repeating the process as the arousal in my prostate built more pleasurably. For many years, I have noticed that the right nipple is connected to the right hemisphere of my body and the left nipple is connected to pleasure in the left hemisphere of my body--balls, glans, foreskin, shaft, legs--the whole schmere of that hemisphere/side of my body connected to the nipple I am tweaking.
Rook encouraged me to read The Inner Smile by Mantak Chia and that is a great book on learning to move the sexual energy around your body.
So anyway, I had had some mild pulses that for years I had not concentrated on, looking for a major trance or the expectation of something big to grab my body and make me orgasm like I have known for years in a wet O. Wrong Wrong Wrong headed thinking.
Two weeks ago, I decided to edge and felt my prostate pulsing mildly. I decided to focus on those pleasurable pulses and mentally encourage them to build. THEY DID. I let go of preconceived notions of how this process of dry Oing was supposed to feel and simply decided to go with relaxing my pelvic floor muscles and encouraging the prostate pulses to build. For the last two weeks, these pulses have built as I edged my shaft paying close attention not to overheat and spurt. Saturday, I knew of a certainty that something was stirring in my prostate.
Today, stroking my shaft only, relaxing, focusing on the pleasure and relaxing further at each advance of pleasure resulted in a wonderful sustained orgasm of intense strength that went on for 5 minutes or so ..........and only stopped because I had to get on with my day. Only precum appeared on my pee slit.
I know that my path to the dry O has been different. Yes, I have spent hours working with the aneros and I am not throwing any stones at you guys who are in another world of blissful pleasure and fulfillment sexually having moved on to the super O and infinity and beyond in Buzz Lightyear terms. I want to get there too. I plan to arouse my prostate thru shaft edging and prostate arousal, and switch to aneros work after I have dry Oed shaft and prostate wise. I have done this once before in the past and had good results......and that was weeks ago before I felt my prostate coming alive.
Any suggestions for me? I am open. I want to get to the super O. I dont know if that is possible thru shaft edging and prostate work. You guys who are rewired and who had had some penis play after your rewiring may be able to counsel me on super Os with penis play. As of now, I am thankful for the dry O I had today and am looking forward to more advanced pleasure as I see posted on these forums. Thanks Guys for any comments and suggestions
I've also concentrated on A-less and some edging with masturbation, haven't used the aneros much at all.
When I'm in the right mood I can dry orgasm to the same intensity by masturbation as A-less, it takes a lot of concentration and if you get it wrong it ends up in ejaculation. A combination of both can be good, if the session isn't really taking off a minute or two of masturbation often kicks it off nicely.
I'm really pleased you have got some success at last. I think A-less is better than aneros personally but that's just me. I haven't had a super-O for ages, and I'm no expert, but I'm sure you will do it in time it will just happen when you least expect it, and it's totally possible doing what you are doing.
Thanks Smudgefish
Your recent post on four things to do was a big part in my breaking the dry O barrier. You said.
"I
would try making sure you concentrate on that feeling in the penis and hold on
to it, breathe into it, build it, don't let it slip away and you will probably
orgasm."
Along with the good advice from all others, I memorized your above statement. I think the "penis not" doctrine of prostate rewiring is limited to awakening your prostate and moving it to the super O.
Once men have hit the super O, penis play and edging becomes a whole new world of enjoyment. I am just a novice so I will stand corrected by any veteran here.
Thanks for your advice to use the big M to kick start a session. I am going to try that with the aneros in as I know that the focus is not my dick, but the prostate.
Something has changed in my body since Monday. My prostate now tingles blissfully while riding in my truck and the bumpier the road/street, the better the bliss. This is heavenly stuff and I am thankful to God for allowing this plodder to move forward at last. INFINITY AND BEYOND.
I'm pleased that helped, and so happy for you that you have made a breakthrough. Not sure if it's officially correct advice but it's how my orgasms often start, and it certainly helps start them if I try to move the energy there.
I agree that for some of us ignoring the penis can be a mistake, it has its uses!
I agree about the penis having its uses here. I don't touch mine much, only to position is comfortably but while using the Aneros, I need to sense it in action. Erecting and throbbing or pulsing when hard. This to me, is very orgasmic.
Eight months after my heart surgery, when I could rarely get an erection and keep it without Cialis, I started my aneros journey. Little did I realize what an amazing journey lay ahead! I was blessed to experience my first O's within six weeks of starting; and, chairgasms soon followed. I practiced the "do nothing" approach; and, quickly adopted the philosophy "it's NOT just about your penis". Since starting, no two sessions have ever been alike. The levels of orgasmic intensity seem to layer upward beyond grasp. The only time, during a session, I touch my penis is to wipe a drool of precum off my slit to wet my lips with. I have followed the advice of the aneros sages to "clear my pipes" after each session though; and, that is when I do my "tiny circle" routine just below my frenulum until my cum surges from within to my waiting hand. Having said all this, my good friend, I fully realize each man's journey is different --- as it should be. The important thing is that we come to feel the full potential within our created manly bodies --- regardless of the onset of age. I could not be happier to hear you are now beginning to experience more full-body orgasmic bliss as a result of your efforts. As you come to let go of the traditional concept of manly bliss and let yourself be overwhelmed by the orchestrated awakening of your fully connected manscape, rejoice without ceasing! My only advice is to insure the practice of your unique routine on a REGULAR basis. Carve that time out and guard it jealously. Close the doors to the rest of the world while you journey --- the world around you will still be there when you cum back!