finally some success (8th session)

Posted by: @simplepenguin

This was with Helix Syn Trident.

I think lack of arousal was my problem all along. I stayed away from porn and fantasy for years. Now I did things a little differently. I've watched just a small amount of porn and banked a few erotic images. I edged with my penis first. Then I inserted the device and was hot for it. I fantasized and focused on my feelings and visualized and did nipple stim and it all connected and I got very pleasurable feelings for the first time. I crave doing it again. 

Excellent!  You're off to a good start!  Just take it easy; one baby step at a time.

Enjoy

Posted by: @ggringo

Posted by: @simplepenguin

This was with Helix Syn Trident.

I think lack of arousal was my problem all along. I stayed away from porn and fantasy for years. Now I did things a little differently. I've watched just a small amount of porn and banked a few erotic images. I edged with my penis first. Then I inserted the device and was hot for it. I fantasized and focused on my feelings and visualized and did nipple stim and it all connected and I got very pleasurable feelings for the first time. I crave doing it again. 

Excellent!  You're off to a good start!  Just take it easy; one baby step at a time.

 

Enjoy

Thank you. Yes indeed. Expectations are a killer. But I realize missing in the past for me was arousal. That was huge.