I come here for info, and curiosity, but to also try and spread knowledge and info - probably like all of you. Anyway, trying to spread info. And there maybe a 100 posts like this, and if that irritates you, I'm sorry. These days, any post titilates me lol.
My journey was a long one. Guessing a few years? Like probably everyone, it was pleasurable - usually, and I anyways tried to learn something each time. I saw one of those posts online that talked about this crazy thing called a prostate orgasm and started looking into it to alleviate my frustration from a sexless marriage. I stuck all sorts of things up there trying to make so something happen. My goto became an old broken fishing pole handle. It was perfect and didn't stand out to anyone. Then I got the njoy wand. 2 inches! That will work. Meh. Eventually I found aneros and the helix syn, along with weed and my world flipped on its head. The helix was smaller than my fishing buddy. I wanted more. Progasm jr? Sure. That will fill me more. More is good. I still want more. Progasm ice! Yes! Angry looking and big. Perfect....meh? I did more research on here and elsewhere and went the other way. Eupho. It's small but will move around easier. OK. Insert explosion emoji. I haven't looked back. Occasionally late in a session or if I'm feeling adventurous I bring out one of the older ones but they don't measure up, results wise. Recently, a-less has become my thing. And that keeps raising my ceiling. So I went from long and fairly big, to bigger, helix and got bigger and bigger, then eupho and I can't not use it.
For the guys that have had success and gone beyond waves and really had some crazy good success, did you find bigger is better? I just find i can literally drive that little thing right where I want it, right where it feels best. And I can sleep with it like nothing is there. Just curious. Not saying big ones don't work, just curious what those that have been having crazy screaming o's would put at the top of their list. Maybe it's just my anatomy? But if someone stole my eupho, I'd be hunting them down...
All kidding aside, is bigger better, or is it smaller? Or mixed? I always thought bigger until eupho my world flipped. Hands down eupho for me.
I'm sure you will get better answers from folks with more experience, but I suspect that you will find a bunch of different answers. As the cliche goes, everyone is wired different, and everyone's at different stage of their journey. The best bet is just try different things, and different combinations and find what works best for you.
I'm still relatively new to the whole thing and had and sort of still have the same question as you do. For now though, I think Aless will be my go to, and I'd only try anything else if I feel adventurous. I've decided that while direct stimulation of prostate is enjoyable, the sensation is too locally prostate focused while the Aless gives me the most expansive and layered pleasure. As for the toys, I tend to think it's not about the size, but the way it's stimulating. I'm curious about the realistic dildos a few on here have shared they had great experience with. I'm also curious how a rabbit vibrator (usually made for women) works on me.
@seanyea good points, notably at the end. There's so many parallels between our interest and women the rabbit is an interesting thought, especially given the pressure points scattered down there. I'm also in the same page as you regarding a-less. It used to be foreplay or a lead up to inserting. Lately it's become more and more of the main attraction. Becoming so easy - both in preparation and clean up as well as performing the actual act.
Bigger can be better sometimes but the smaller guys seem to trigger the pleasure points!! I have tried many different shaes and options in search of the ultimate pleasure but have chosen my MGX Syn Trident as my favorite as the flexible tabs and th ribbed stem seem to work best! Everyone is built differently so you have to experiment to see what works best! What didn’t work before can now provide awesome results so don’t discard anything as you will regret it later!
I think mgx was next on my list, and since these toys are kind of like fishing lures, you can never have enough! As for the eupho, between its movement and my hips moving, I feel like I can move it over a spot and go back and forth as long as I want to. Really looking forward to alone time tonight. Lol
Started with Helix Syn V enjoyed it but wanted bigger fuller sensation. Went right to Vice 2. I love it, often warm up w Syn V and then go to the Vice 2.