Can´t pass the "need to pee" and pee

I often feel the need to pee during a session, some people say this is part of the prostate sensation, but for me, 100% of the time it's because my bladder is full. If I follow that sensation, it usually ends with me bearing down and pushing the piss out, small amounts at a time. The first dribbles have a thicker consistency, like pre-cum, but if I keep going it becomes a full-flow of piss and it's all together too messy.
It can be fun, but I consider it a distraction. When I feel the need to pee, I pause the session, go for a wizz, and resume without that sensation. I don't accept the need to pee as an integral part of the prostate massage, because for me it has never played any useful part.

@clenchy

Thanks for sharing. This helps me to adjust my further sessions 🙂

Posted by: @clenchy

I often feel the need to pee during a session, some people say this is part of the prostate sensation, but for me, 100% of the time it's because my bladder is full. If I follow that sensation, it usually ends with me bearing down and pushing the piss out, small amounts at a time. The first dribbles have a thicker consistency, like pre-cum, but if I keep going it becomes a full-flow of piss and it's all together too messy.
It can be fun, but I consider it a distraction. When I feel the need to pee, I pause the session, go for a wizz, and resume without that sensation. I don't accept the need to pee as an integral part of the prostate massage, because for me it has never played any useful part.

This happens with me as well. I can completely empty my bladder prior to a session and as arousal and involuntaries build I'll get that pressure of urination.  It also dulls my sensations a bit. So I inconveniently need to get up and pee. One session it was three times. I do notice the fluid is completely clear & odorless. Doesn't really seem much like pee. After I urinate it seems to bring the sensations back and they feel stronger. Not really sure what to do. This all happens using a hands free toy. ( Aneros MGX & Helix Trident ). Surprisingly this happens also with Aless. Maybe it's somehow attached to feelings of arousal and contractions. One good thing though, sessions continue to only get better & better, though I wish I didn't need to get up so much. 

Posted by: @buick45571gmail-com

So I inconveniently need to get up and pee.

There are ways to make it less inconvenient, if you're willing to keep a large empty bottle near the bed. 😉

Though I do feel like I'm coming out of some kind of closet admitting that.

I've always had a mild fetish for urination so a couple of weeks ago I bought a pack of depends. I wanted to see if having a mostly full bladder did anything for the pleasure and also wanted to just let go. To my surprise the depends contained a mostly full bladder worth and it was fairly stimulating to me. I now mostly use the depends to use my chosen device in my recliner without worry of getting lube everywhere.

I try not to drink anything for an hour or so before I have a session, but even that doesn't always keep my bladder from speaking up during a session.  Different things happen depending on how serious the need is to pee:

• If I totally relax and pee starts to come out, I'll go pee (or use a piss bottle if I prepped one)
• If I totally relax and pee doesn't start to come out right away, I'll let myself get back into the rhythm of the ride and usually have a really strong orgasm
• If it's later in a session and I'm already hitting strong orgasms, I'll just keep hitting them and not even try to relax.  Usually results in a couple very strong if not super Os followed by a need to pee that I can't ignore.

And sometimes it fuels my session to move to the tub and lie back and watch the piss stream out and all over me.

@clenchy

There's a lot more people peeing in bottles than you might think, nothing strange about it.  I love winter camping and using a 1L wide mouth Nalgene bottle inside your tent or sleeping bag is pretty standard stuff. They're easy to wash and won't hold a smell, also won't leak or crack. They're perfect for this application.

Pro tip : for camping, wrap some tape around the pee bottle so you can identify it by feel in the dark, you don't want to mix it with the "good" bottle...  

Today, during another session it was strange.... Same as before, but a bit different. After 30 minutes of relaxing and do nothing, I came to the situation to feel this pressure and urge to pee. But, compared with my last session, I used less muscle contractions, tried to become comfortable with this feeling. After a few minutes, when the perineum tab hit strongly, I felt an amount of liquid upcoming my penis. I released, prepared to go to toilet... But it was a huge amount of thick precum. For me it was crazy, it dripped like Glue (if this happens everytime I never need lubricant again 😀 ). This happened three times, but the fourth try I thought I could come but it was pee....again....

Posted by: @art-of-masturbating

Hey everyone,

 

I reached a problem and I want to know, if anyone had a similar experience that supports me to proceed with my journey:

 

Since a few sessions I reached a new personal milestone, but this is also uncomfortable to me. After around 20-30 minutes of using my progasm ice, I feel the prostate gets swollen. It feels nice but also the urge to pee starts. The pressure is really intense. The feeling is a mix of "release to pee" and the beginning of ejaculation. With my muscles and soft contractions I´m able to ride this wave, last session suddenly I dripped out nearly 2 teaspoons of liquid precum (its more liquid than I usually have, I guess its mingled with a few amount of pee ?).

Then, when I relax all my muscles and think about "just let it flow", I pee a lot with a light feeling of ejaculating. Everytime I empty my bladder before I start a session, but also everytime I pee at the end when I´m relaxed during this phase. I cannot pass this, maybe I´m not horny enough....(because the prostate needs to swell more to close the urethra?)

 

Does anyone had a comparable experience ? I´m exited, the super O is near 😀

Hey @art-of-masturbating,

I am so glad you brought this up as I have been thinking of starting a post about this. I’m having the same experience. I will be relaxing, doing some kegels to get things going and then when I decide to relax the PC muscle and “just let it flow”, I feel a pleasurable build up and then I end up peeing...a lot! Sometimes, there is some precum in there, but the majority of the fluid seems to be a urine-like substance. And sometimes when I do a kegel contraction in this state, I am shooting out urine like a cumshot. It’s a nice feeling, but I wouldn’t say that it is overly orgasmic. I have been having the hardest time determining if I am making progress or going down the wrong path.

This may seem weird, but I have been having my sessions on the bathroom floor lately. This way, I can just let myself pee however much comes out, then clean up the floor later and take a shower to clean myself. Problem is...I don’t feel like I am progressing towards an orgasm and now I’m wondering whether I should get up to urinate before this happens to make more progress toward an orgasm.

Does anyone have any insight on this? Pee right where I am on the floor or get up to urinate and fully relieve myself?

@7sdoor

Do what feels good, but I think peeing right there on the floor will limit your options later on. Can't play on your bed, your favorite chair, on the carpet... I'd be worried about linking prostate pleasure and urinating, could cause messes down the line as you rewire,  if you get unexpected strong p-waves at the supermarket, for example...

My advice would be to stop and use the bathroom as often as necessary, it only takes a moment and you can go right back to your session without the distraction of a full bladder. 

1. Before every session I pee and drain my bladder. However when I'm having orgasms or in between orgasms my bladder quickly fills back up. A full bladder for me seems to dull my sensations a bit. After I get up and empty it again & again my sensations are strong again.  Plus it's crystal clear.  No oder or color like urine.  Not even sure what it is. Is this pretty common for p-play ?

I get the urge to pee during sessions as well.  Its never overwhelming. Usually 15-20 minutes in. I’m usually leaking a little precum. I stop, pee and keep going. However I have also found that the prostate being stimulated will produce that feeling as well. 

A nalgene 1.5 liter wide-mouthed bottle is an accessory for all my sessions.

I like the 1.5 liters because in the past, with a 1.0 liter, i've come too close to capacity for comfort.  Last thing I want to deal with when I'm "in a state" is an overflowing pee bottle.

https://nalgene.com/product/48oz-wide-mouth-silo-bottle

Posted by: @zentai

@7sdoor

Do what feels good, but I think peeing right there on the floor will limit your options later on. Can't play on your bed, your favorite chair, on the carpet... I'd be worried about linking prostate pleasure and urinating, could cause messes down the line as you rewire,  if you get unexpected strong p-waves at the supermarket, for example...

My advice would be to stop and use the bathroom as often as necessary, it only takes a moment and you can go right back to your session without the distraction of a full bladder. 

 

Thanks @zentai!

That’s a good point about not wanting to associate prostate pleasure with urination. I have been noticing in a few sessions since then, the fluid is becoming less urine-like and more precum. 

I’m hoping that as I get better at this and my PC muscles get stronger that this urination phenomenon will fade away. Until then, I will definitely get up to pee when I need to.

Does the “need to pee” feeling go away once you are rewired/further in your journey? Or is this something that is always present with even the most experienced prostate players?

Posted by: @7sdoor

Does the “need to pee” feeling go away once you are rewired/further in your journey?

Yes and No, I've been using Aneros massagers for more than 13 years now and I still get that familiar nerve signal when the massager applies pressure to the prostate. This pressure is similar to the pressure a full bladder also applies to your prostate but there is a difference. Your mind can learn to interpret that signal differently. This is where the term rewiring is also applicable. Since I always empty my bladder and have limited my intake of fluids for more than an hour before starting an Anerosession, I know there will not be an actual need to urinate for the next couple of hours. This knowledge allows me to now interpret that signal as a pleasurable component to my Anerosession and not necessarily as an urgency to urinate. I can allow the pelvic floor muscles to relax and contract during a session without being concerned about peeing myself. Of course in doesn't hurt to provide a towel under yourself just in case .

Good Vibes to You!

Thanks @rumel! That is great information! Since I haven’t had even a mini O yet, it is a challenge to figure out which signals and feelings are leading you in the right direction.