can a partner control your aneros session and leave u wanting more

I have not had the success using the aneros with my wife that I have had solo.
maybe in time that will come but for now I prefer to go it alone

I brought an aneros It sounded great but i didnt want to leave my gf out. We have had some great sessions, I wonder if her being in control, I do not get a chance to use my muscels, i need to use i have to keep her back from getting me to cum? I dont want to hurt her, sometimes i feel i need time with aneros.? without being rushed I have been getting incredable erections since i have been using the aneros, and they last forever. I dont want to be selfish

jerdan45 -

i'm new to all things anal and certainly to aneros learning to get comfortable with my progasm ...

so my opinion is just that (an opinion): i suspect that solo workouts with your aneros would be in order - after all didn't all of us learn to pleasure our dicks long before they tasted pussy (or oral)?

... me i began wanking in earnest at about my eleventh birthday and didn't get laid for a good four years.

we guys learn to control our orgasms manually so we can not only pleasure our partners but maximize our own pleasure in search of the perfect high - ecstasy

... so i think you aren't "hurting" your gf as long as your "self abuse" doesn't cut into quality intimate sessions and fucking your partner.

i'm married and love pussy and frequent conjugal relations but having tried anal remotely - and both of us agreeing it wasn't our cup of tea - i am privately developing my relationship with the aneros

... there may come a point where it will be a shared activity but i anticipate it will primarily be good fucking with my intra-anal progasm cumming along for the ride

- rip