76,married and unable to have ejaculatory orgasm.....any older posters here having this problem

From my perspective as a premature ejaculator in his mid-30s that sounds like a wonderful problem to have! 

Have you tried sex with an Aneros inserted? 

@faith-manages    thanks.......i have tried having sex with the aneros inserted,but alas, no better.

i understand your view as a prem. ej'r. but in my case the duration of sexual contact  is too long [ i can't seem to get anywhere near the orgasmic zone ] and my wife loses interest and starts getting sore which affects my desire to continue.

same with solo masturbation.......can't get into that area of pleasure that builds up into ejaculatory orgasm

Have you thought about asking your family dr to refer you to urology or a sexual therapist. If you can’t get to ejaculation even with an aneros inserted,then there may be a problem. Do you train your pelvic floor with kegels? They might be criminally weak due to the ageing process.

@helghast....thanks

i have been doing kegels for many many years and since i read the '' mindgasm '' post on here some time ago i have incorporated [ along with the  middle p c muscle ]  the base muscle [ anal sphincter ?? ] and top muscle [ that muscle engages the prostate gland ?? ]

i have learned to seperate the three to great effect but only during aneros and a/less sessions.

before my aneros journey i was able to carry out multiple kegels a day but since i am now totally re wired my body is extremely responsive and reacts instantly when i start clenching my p c muscle...... an orgasm builds up  rapidly and am unable to continue with the kegels.

ii possible i always try to avoid the medical profession.  

Another approach might be to alter the method of stimulation, using a vibrator like the Cobra Libre, but that's the only other thing that comes to mind.  I agree with Helghast that it might be time to consult a doctor, sex therapist, or some other kind of professional.  The knowledge on this board only goes so far.

@faith-manages...o k.....thanks for your input