well, i've had a lot of no advancement sessions and maybe even some one or two steps backwards sessions since the last post--tried cutting back the hot glue and also reshaping it--got feelings going but could never complete the loop to self generating feelings--very frustrating after thinking i had cracked it!--finally decided that the p-tab just wasn't hitting my spot and that the pressure on my perineum was too great--i discovered the post on the forum about external prostate massage...