Been into prostate play, aneros, mindgasm for a couple of months. Feel like I am getting good results and am optimistic about this forum's approach. One question: when aroused, by porn, audio or just mental images, I often if not always experience a "jolt" that almost feels like a spasm. Muscles go tense and I jerk (upwards?) Definitely involuntary but in no way like a gentle wave. I can say "yes" to these feelings and begin writhing or convulsing on the bed or chair with arousal building. But there has been no release. The feelings are definitely pleasurable and would normally lead me to fap. But I have not done so for about a month so am easily aroused. My focus has been on "rewiring" with attention on the prostate. I know how to do relaxation and am able to become quite relaxed but these "jolts" are anything but relaxing. Any thoughts?
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I know how to do relaxation and am able to become quite relaxed but these "jolts" are anything but relaxing. Any thoughts?
I think you are doing just fine. Don't worry about those sudden "jolts", they are probably just a natural release of building energy/tension. When involuntaries kick in they are not always in a "gentle wave" form but can be startling in their intensity, just allow it to happen and the pleasure will flow.
Good Vibes to You!
@rumel It's nice to be affirmed by an elder along the path. This rings true to me. Thanks.