Wet orgasm problems

Imho you don't relax the right muscle. Since I've started with the aneros, I've discovered that I can have as much penil stim as I want and not ejaculate. It actually require a lot of effort for me to have a regular ejaculation. Maybe I'm an abnormal person, but I think this key might be valid for everyone.

I used to have the same problem. For long while. I identified the following session procedures or guidelines that helped me:

-Go naked. Even though you may not directly be stimulating your penis, the boxers are doing that for you, whether you realize it or not.
-I stopped trying to push the session by NOT doing kegels or any conscious prostate exercises. I adopted the do nothing approach and deep breathing in and of itself was a huge turning point for me. Breathing and nipple stim are all I use now. Eventually, involuntaries start and my body does all the work.
-Your minds eye is your best friend. I had to focus specifically on the Aneros and what it was doing and how it was making me feel. This helped take away focus from my penis which contributed to my wet orgasms. By taking that focus away and redirecting it, this was huge in progressing past accidental or premature wet orgasms.
-Most people say stay away from porn. For me, porn did contribute to wet orgasms, especially real good porn. I almost climaxed with whatever porn I was watching so I realized I was focusing too much. Now I use it to get me going in a session, then either turn it off or just use the audio is a stimulation and to keep me turned on.
-Take short breaks. If you feel you are close to coming I would stop everything for a few minutes. This actually seemed to help greatly and I would almost be supercharged once I started again.

Just a few ideas..

It happens sometimes, dont be too concerned about it.

Something I have been trying lately is using numbing cream.

Its removes the problem of wet orgasms and allows you to focus entirely on the Aneros.

I will write as I progress along.