Thought experiment - One week Aneros Vacation

Wow, a whole week to yourself.  My only suggestion is to go with the flow and listen to your body. 

Enjoy your Aneros vacation!

Posted by: @mountain-below-the-sea

in a position where Aneros sessions can be hard to have. Even though my SO says she's fine if I have them while she's home, I can never really feel like it's the right time.

A lot of guys would kill to have the wife ok with things. Why are you hiding from her? Your wasting a lot of sessions that could be had when she’s around. Is there any particular reason why she cannot join on with a session? Perhaps if she heard your moans,groans and cries of pleasure from the bedroom,she’d decide to go jump into the middle of it all. 

Posted by: @mountain-below-the-sea

I fully understand "siege mentality"

Packing everything in to a week where your SO is gone is siege mentality,you’ve alluded to that when you run through the massive list of things to do and treat yourself with.

Posted by: @mountain-below-the-sea

So my question to you, is what would you do?

Have one session every other day for around 45-60 mins,longer if it’s working. Try not to set up specific plans,plans fall apart.Big daily sessions may dull your nerves,and make you a little sore in the area.

Hahah awesome Helghast, ironically enough I stole "siege mentality" from one of your other posts. I guess you're right.

On the hiding stuff from the SO, I guess i'm not really sure how that would work. Our relationship is really on the rocks about big questions and our differences on them, so our sex life has grinded to a hault. I know from some of your past posts that you have a really amazing relationship regarding sex life, so I am all ears if you have some ideas how to incorporate her

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Posted by: @mountain-below-the-sea

I am all ears if you have some ideas how to incorporate her

You could ask her to join in. Nice and simple 🙂 Just talk to the woman.

Posted by: @mountain-below-the-sea

So my question to you, is what would you do? What makes an Aneros session feel extra special for you independent of the outcome?

I think your list of items is quite reasonable.
1.) Since high arousal is a key aspect facilitating orgasms, temporary abstinence should greatly help.
2.) I wouldn't be too concerned about trying to use all of your Aneros devices, just let your intuition guide you.
3.) No porn is a good idea as you will already be primed from your abstinence.
4.) Congrats for getting the new Helix SYN 'V', I think you'll love it, it may be the only model you choose to use.
5.) Nipple play is a good idea, just experiment with a variety of techniques and you'll discover what works well for you.
6.) Please go careful with the drugs, I'd recommend only light dosing and don't mix/combo cannabis and the magic truffles.
7.) A quick crash pad sounds very convenient, have a soft warm blanket available to stay comfy.
8.) Dedicating adequate time is very important and having the luxury to integrate the experience through writing is a wonderful idea.

I would recommend you also incorporate some audio stimulation into your Anerosessions as well as any items of interest you can find in the Identifying Facilitators to Progress thread. Keeping in mind that it is the journey and not any particular outcome where the joy is experienced.

Good Vibes to You!

thank you so much (as always) rumel for your insights! It always blows my mind how this journey is so uniquely special to each of us, but I never feel alone on it with the help of everyone. Really appreciate it 🙂

God I've been thinking about this recently, if I had even a week...

I'd be having lots of sessions no doubt, but I'd also try to listen to my body and take breaks for other fulfilling things too.

edit: what I mean is a week without work, otherwise I live alone so I can session whenever I'm not working

Be very careful with time. You may feel pressure under this week to feel good things, and then throw too much coal on the fire before it gets burning hot. 

Wow, I have to jump in the if my wife was ok with this, I'd be loving it at home with her bandwagon. That would hot. I sometimes wonder if my wife learned sexual practice from the Shakers, but if she showed some interest or curiosity or encouragement at all, it would be hot.

If you want to try some nipple play, consider the womanizer premium. No Aneros required...it will "prime the pump" for aneros later. Give it 20 minutes or so on autopilot mode and see if fireworks don't start going off.

I have over done sessions (we probably all have over time), hoping we can milk something grand out of another session when we would be better of just getting a good night's rest and maybe several days off from aneros practice. I have been having the best constantly pleasure filled sessions I ever had no more than 3 nights a week, usually in a row, and then lay off for 3 or four days.