Thank you for the post Crimsonwolf. I learned something as a direct result of reading and implementing what you wrote. First, I was not paying close enough attention to what I was feeling, in all parts of my body. As an example, nipple stimulation does not do anything for me, or so I thought. I discovered that even though nipple stim does not feel pleasant at the nipple, it does fire up the prostate. I didn't notice before because I wasn't paying attention to all parts of my body. I did not expect that at all. I keep learning new things throughout this journey that I probably would not have figured by myself.
So much good advice here, Ty cw!