Something quite helpful....maybe?

I know everyone is different. I know what works for one person, may not work for another. And I know it's your own journey and you need to find your own way and what works for you. Having said all that....I was reading another post and I thought there was a couple of key points made that I would like to share. I myself found them to make a lot of sense and very useful. One was by TeeJay. He said (so elegantly lol)

If I was asked to give one word of advice to new users it would be: Try to shit-n-piss while thinking about something that gets you real hot".

As long as your bowels and bladder are empty to begin a session, this works. I don't think beginners realize that they are not really, really relaxed. Now this is not to say to push outwards like your having a bowel movement. Just let these muscles go. Try it. The other helpful piece of info kind of goes hand in hand and will help also. Ten_s_nut wrote

Getting comfortable and truly relaxed are important. One other very important first step is, make sure you know what sustained prostate contact feels like. Then, when you use the Helix, remember that sensation. The rest will follow, eventually.

This I believe is huge. I think a lot of people, myself included, don't think of "sustained" contact. I always thought I should be looking for a tapping or rubbing of the prostate. But this makes a lot of sense to me and very well could be the little advice I needed to have a SUPER-O. Maybe everyone else already knew this. I don't know. In all the posts and threads I've read along the way, I can't say I remember ever reading about "sustained" contatct. Like I said, maybe I'm wrong.
I wasn't even going to write this but I thought, hell, if I thought this was helpful, maybe others will also. I hope it is.
Thanks btw to TeeJay and ten_s_nut. This is great advice. I can only speak for myself, but these two pieces may be the most helpful I have read or been given. I hope not to offend anyone by saying that. I just think a lot can be learned from this info. It speaks volumes. At least to me. Thx and good luck everyone.