Questions about first orgasmic experience (after five years)

Hey everyone, does anyone have an opinion or thoughts about my questions? Hopefully someone has some insight. Thanks!

@WM59, hi and welcome! Congrats to your first step! Lately I wrote a post that might give you a hint how to distinguish between relaxing and unconscious movements of your body. If you let your gland take over you will at the same moment be relaxing and nevertheless twitching like crazy. The clue is to enforce nothing but at the same time let go and give up command. Your gland needs the body movements to stimulate itself and send you into the sea of bliss and ecstasy, where waves of pure sexual energy crush over you, taking you with them to transcend to another dimension. Good vibes!

Hey @WM59,

My question is that experience was brought on by that growing tension in my body and not from relaxing. So where does relaxing fit? If i had consciously relaxed would the outcome have been the same?

There is a difference between muscular tension and nerval tension. Relaxing usually means the relaxation of your muscles. But orgasm is something that happens in your nervous system & brain, so it's the result of nerval tension. Muscular tensions helps to reach a certain threshold earlier regarding the classic ejaculatory spinal reflex orgasm. But it prevents you from reaching higher levels of nerval excitement / arousal. That's why relaxation is so important. It helps building higher levels of arousal w/o being released too early resulting in an underwhelming orgasm (compared to the super-o benchmark).

Cheers, Unfug

Wow ! 5 years you earned it and many more. Congratulations! I never really understood either. You have to be very relaxed to reach that point. Then have this involuntary muscle contractions/spasms.Incredible experience!

@Unfug and @SOwithoutAneros hey guys, thank you so much for your time and responses, i don't get on here often but i do appreciate your information.

​​​​​​​It's probably the first time I've read about nerval tension and something I should read more about, especially since in my last session i had for the first time a hands free wet (or traditional?) orgasm... I'll have to read up about that as well now! all i was doing was holding a small contraction and yet it seems now in my journey that that tension was sufficient to bring it on. Not really what i wanted as i had been without a traditional orgasm for more than a month. As you said, it comes back to muscular tension. The idea to completely relax and let go certainly doesn't go naturally and is a learning curve in itself.

Again thanks guys:)

I have these "explosions" throughout my whole body and mind, it's indescribable. It's like my heart pumps one time really really hard and my mind charges up a neural electricity pulse that's really big and they send the electricity and blood through my whole body at the exact same time, and its a full body/mind sense of elation. It makes me shudder really hard and fast and then right after it the aneros is autofucking me very gently and every part of my body feels like every other part. That's what my dry Os feel like, this full-on experience of heightened tension and release. It is muscular and neural at the same time for me, usually accompanied by a quick flash of light, a gasp of air, and a full body random twitch I can't control. The relaxation and grin I have the second after it happens is fabulous.

I sometimes flex my PC to make the aneros go in me deeper and then release, but honestly after the first 10 minutes or so I can't tell if I'm doing it on purpose or my ass is doing it on its own. I can't tell. Without warning my sphincters will clench hard and pull the aneros in deep and hold it very, very tightly, completely out of my control. I want to relax them to ease up but I can't because it feels so good, and it builds and builds and builds and then the second (actually split second, or nanosecond lol) it eases up it slams back into me hard as the first spasm of autofuck begins and that's when this "elation" feeling happens and that's my dry O. Sometimes the auto-clench doesn't last longer than a few seconds, sometimes it goes on and on for almost a minute. The longer the clench the bigger the O with me.

Thanks for your post! I love this stuff 🙂

I have these "explosions" throughout my whole body and mind, it's indescribable. [...]
Thanks for your post! I love this stuff 🙂

But, @techpump, you just did it! What a vivid description, giving me sudden Aless - my gland must have read along - and leaving me with a raging boner.
Thanks for sharing! If I would smoke, I now would enjoy a cigarette. 😀

all i was doing was holding a small contraction and yet it seems now in my journey that that tension was sufficient to bring it on. Not really what i wanted [...] Again thanks guys:)

You're welcome, thanks for sharing, too. You just gave me a hint, how I may get over the hurdle to enjoy my first HFWO from prostate vibes. Even before rewiring an HFWO only happened to me once after edging for hours along with using heavy ball weights. Holding any contractions for long is something I haven't tried yet, cause I rather was into let go and do nothing.
Thanks again and good vibes!

You're welcome, thanks for sharing, too. You just gave me a hint, how I may get over the hurdle to enjoy my first HFWO from prostate vibes. Even before rewiring an HFWO only happened to me once after edging for hours along with using heavy ball weights. Holding any contractions for long is something I haven't tried yet, cause I rather was into let go and do nothing.
Thanks again and good vibes!

First, thanks man I appreciate it! glad you enjoyed 🙂

Second, I highlighted you saying "do nothing" above because sometimes you can't just do nothing. If you're working your PC muscles and making your sphincters tighten and relax, its going to make the aneros move, and working on how hard or gentle to flex will make the toy move in and out and then if you focus on what ALL of the feelings are like, and where exactly they all occur, and what your muscles were doing when you felt those sensations, you will know many more secrets about yourself! I used to try to do nothing every time, but after a while I made things happen and said "well now, if this thing feels THAT good, then I want to feel good!!" Pleasure is what this is all about, it's about getting off as hard as humanly possible (at least that's what I'm going for). Yes super Os are unreal/surreal, and sometimes you can peer into the center of a galaxy, but I've had much bigger orgasms than my usual super Os. It's just an amazing variety of orgasm. And, A-less Os are out of this world! I love those things!

@techpump, Well spoken!

And, A-less Os are out of this world! I love those things!

Affirmative! Me too! (3 hours long this morning!)

I just ordered my first ever aneros product. Awaiting pensively and curiously for its arrival. I appreciate reading these entries from you guys out there that have had far more extensive experience with it. I look forward to being able to contribute more fully to and communicating with other men about the amazing results you all are having. Of course after I start using my own. Hopefully I get some positive results quickly !

Techpump stated that his journies to the super O involve a flash of light. Very interesting. How many of you guys have had flashing light experiences or experiences with brilliant or bright light? I have a belief that the super O is God given as He designed everything in the male body and said it was good. Also, God describes His being as light.

Would appreciate your experiences with light with aneros use. Thanks for all replies

@Turnrow yes, since I started with Aneros in Jan 2016, I have been getting flashes of bright light not unlike a flash of lightning. This occurs on occasion and not necessarily while in a session. I figured I must be one of very few to have them but hopefully more members will voice their experiences.

Thanks GGringo. Techpump, like you, is a master of all things super O. Hopefully he and others will chime in on this "light thing." I also remember reading on this site that some men have experiences with brilliant colors of light which may be the component colors associated with light, like in the rainbow we see after a heavy rain. So anyone experiencing color flashes, please chime in too.

Techpump stated that his journies to the super O involve a flash of light. Very interesting. How many of you guys have had flashing light experiences or experiences with brilliant or bright light?

I've had something similar happened to me a few times, and I haven't had anything close to a super-o yet. Imagine you're in a dark room with your eyes closed. Now imagine someone points a flashlight at your face for a short moment. Despite your eyes being close you can tell that the lighting around you got a lot brighter. That's how it was like for me.

Lately, as I noticed flashes of bright light occurring more often during my sessions, I already remembered that this "light thing" is accompanying my whole journey. As my initiation rides came along with wild comic fantasies I remember rainbowlike disco lights at those times too.

Not ever having given weight to them, my memories about these lights are not very detailed.
But, agreeing with @Turnrow, I think they mostly appear when the Crown Chakra is involved.

By all means, thanks guys for sharing and helping to increase my awareness for these attendant circumstances. Good vibes!

I've had many orgasms in the past 2 years since re-wiring many of the aggresive vocal climax style and some starting that way and progessing into all over body waves of pleasure and calm seas euphoria and dream like trance states ,however after a long marathon all day on and off session which ended with some earth shattering vocal orgasms with the vibrating beads I was feeling spent the next day but later in the evening I wondered if I could continue from where i left off .I went for the eupho and it got straight to work but as in the past after a heavy session I was not really feeling what the eupho was doing although i felt it pressing in on my spot ,however ijust layed there and let it do it's thing not really expecting much this was just the embers of a big bang session the previous day, however this kind of sneaked up on me from nowhere suddenly i felt my body fill with a slow glow of pleasure energy and it just paralized me i just relaxed and went with it this feeling built and built till i was just lying there and also this energy was building around my chest area then I realised i felt detatched from my body and my mind was falling into a chasm then bang like someone hit re set I heard a strange hum like noise and then i saw a white light in my mind that was slowly moving up and down like an old tv screen out of tune also i remember my eyelids flickering at very high speed ,then i must have just layed there in a zombie like bliss mind just blank almost overloaded in euphoria. When i finally came round it was 3 hours later and i was still in a daze as i stumbled around .I have never really had another session the next day after a big session but i've never gone from not feeling much after insertion to this type of catatonic state without the normal vocal intense orgasms leading to more trance like orgasms later,this just came from nothing and i've felt energy up the spine but never so much in my upper chest area ,anyone else relate to this?

I have these "explosions" throughout my whole body and mind, it's indescribable. It's like my heart pumps one time really really hard and my mind charges up a neural electricity pulse that's really big and they send the electricity and blood through my whole body at the exact same time, and its a full body/mind sense of elation. It makes me shudder really hard and fast and then right after it the aneros is autofucking me very gently and every part of my body feels like every other part. That's what my dry Os feel like, this full-on experience of heightened tension and release. It is muscular and neural at the same time for me, usually accompanied by a quick flash of light, a gasp of air, and a full body random twitch I can't control. The relaxation and grin I have the second after it happens is fabulous.

I sometimes flex my PC to make the aneros go in me deeper and then release, but honestly after the first 10 minutes or so I can't tell if I'm doing it on purpose or my ass is doing it on its own. I can't tell. Without warning my sphincters will clench hard and pull the aneros in deep and hold it very, very tightly, completely out of my control. I want to relax them to ease up but I can't because it feels so good, and it builds and builds and builds and then the second (actually split second, or nanosecond lol) it eases up it slams back into me hard as the first spasm of autofuck begins and that's when this "elation" feeling happens and that's my dry O. Sometimes the auto-clench doesn't last longer than a few seconds, sometimes it goes on and on for almost a minute. The longer the clench the bigger the O with me.

Thanks for your post! I love this stuff 🙂

Excellent description! Very vivid, I have had very similar sensations that I could not describe like you did.

The light flashes are what is called Synesthesia (Google it), basically the orgasm signal is so strong that it also lights up the eye nerves. But you can also experience it in other way for example in my case when I'm falling asleep, if there is a sound in my room, I will see a small flash of light in my eyes (though they are closed). It only works with sudden and brief sounds.
I also read somwhere that some drugs could cause synesthesia.