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Recently, I've been making a concerted effort to really listen to my body for the more subtle sensations with prostate play.  It's been interesting.  I'm at a point now where I can get two different sensations. The first and most obvious is a shock, a kick of pleasure that hits me when I'm able to fully relax. When I can feel my backside get deeply relaxed, I can twitch my (I think) rectal muscles and feel this shock of pleasure whip its way through me. When relaxed enough, I cannot help but vocalize because of its intensity. The deeper I can relax, the harder the surge when I flex. It lasts only a moment but I can feel how strong it is.  Mostly invoked in a voluntary fashion.

Based on that, I've been trying to dive further in when I feel my bottom relax, resisting the urge to flex into a pleasure shock. I can start to feel something nice that seems to stick around more, not nearly the same strength, but it's from the same place. It's hard not to want to flex though so that I can feel the shock.

Oddly enough though, I can only seem to make these things happen while A-less.  I cannot seem to fully relax my muscles with the toy in (using a Helix Syn).  I'm not sure if this means that the toy is the wrong size, or if there's something I should be doing to adjust my actions.

I feel like I'm making an important step here, but I'm not quite sure what to do with it... part of me still wonders if the second sensation is just in my head, which I know is something that limits me. Do you have any advice to help me better understand where I'm at in the journey, or tips on how to use what I've discovered so far?


   
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I've actually experienced something similar with Aless responses after having first "trained" with Helix Trident. I now find it's easy to get orgasms centered around anal/lower abdomen areas that are repeating, powerful muscle spasms. But if I try to consciously relax there and focus on breathing into all areas of the body, I can get more P waves without the strong anal convulsions (or can experience these more in other areas, instead of just anal-centered). For me, certain leg and arm positions affect this, too (eg, lying with knees bent triggers strong anal contractions, whereas lying flat on my back with legs straight out doesn't and allows for more P waves and spasms elsewhere).  

Sounds like you're making good progress. Try not to get too attached to reaching a goal, and just relax and enjoy each experience! 


   
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@PewSmagoo

First, congrats on your Aneros and Aless progress !

This might seem like generic advice but one thing that really helped me make some sense of the whole Aless Vs. Aneros thing is to start considering both as separate but related activities.

Like walking vs. sprinting. Big similarities but also big differences. So I'll be expecting very different feelings from both activities and I won't compare them directly but I'll look for patterns. 

There's nothing wrong with concentrating on aless for a while if you get more pleasure or if it's more fulfilling for you, switching back and forth or whatever. 

Oh and make of it what you will, but in my case accepting that it's really mostly "all in my head" was a huge step. Thinking that a small piece of plastic was the central element was something I needed to overcome at some point. 

You seem to be getting steady progression, keep going and enjoy your results. Deeper understanding will surely come to you as you go.


   
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@PewSmagoo,

These sensations show that you are making progress. I also had these kinds of pleasure kicks at the beginning of my journey. Then, little by little, these brief peaks of pleasure began to last longer. What I've also noticed is that the quality of my A-less sessions follows a parallel curve to the progress I'm making with my massagers. For the moment, the pleasure I get from A-less is still less than from my sessions with a toy.


   
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Update:

I wanted to come back with some more progress, and to compare some more notes.  I started doing some journaling so that I can better be accustomed to recognizing the feelings, and after writing it down, I'm curious to see if these sensations are similar to what you experience, that it can help me confirm what I'm experiencing.

It's really different from penile stimulation.  This isn't a linear sensation like I'm used to: this feels more like a little ball of pleasure on my insides. As the session goes on, I can feel it flex and grow, subside, then grow again.  The more it grows, the more I feel it in other parts of my body. It radiates like warmth, almost feels like butterflies in my stomach, but in places that are not my stomach.  If I flex to start a kick of pleasure, I can start to hold it with my sphincter, like pitching and catching. If I catch and hold it, that's when it starts to radiate.  I absolutely must let it come to me, BUT, and here's what I'm starting to learn, I need to continue encouraging it to come.

This feels, SO NICE.  Penile pleasure is like going up an incline on a rollercoaster.  It gets more and more exciting the closer you get to the top, and the longer you hold out, the higher the drop, but if you don't get to go down the incline, it can feel emotionally and physically distressing, like you missed out on the whole purpose of the ride.  But by comparison, this almost feels like a growing eruption. Like a geyser spout that goes up and down, pleasure that builds up, washes over, and then subsides. It feels so much more passive, and while I do want more, there's a sense of completion to each wave that doesn't feel distressing if it stops.  I feel like I know what my wife means when she says she didn't cum but still really enjoyed herself.  That's this!

I am really enjoying myself. I want to feel this more often. It's intimate, delicate. This weekend was the best yet.  Less spiking of pleasure like before, more hovering with it.  It scratches an itch that I didn't know I had.

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Posted by: @pewsmagoo

It's intimate, delicate.

Exactly!

The first times I felt pleasure with an Aneros, I found these sensations to be delicate and exquisite.

These sensations can also become intense and from another world. For me, the best orgasms are those that begin imperceptibly, grow quietly for long seconds or even minutes and finally burst into intensely pleasurable sensations.

HOW GOOD THAT IS!


   
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Agree with the comments mentioned above - my Aless sessions have become more intense during the past year which, in turn, have caused my Aneros MGX Syn sessions to become more intense! Am frequently wakened early morning by Aless waves of pleasure and anal twitches! Just relax and follow where they lead and am rewarded by intense pleasure!


   
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