Ok, B.Mayfield and others, got a few questions

Knuckle,

First off I must say that you have a great attitude, it sounds like you're really committed to opening yourself up to this experience (which is essential). With regard to the dils impairing your sensitivity, I doubt it. The fact is that most dildos and vibrators are straight and cylindrical and unless you're very creative, they afford very little prostate contact at all. One thing to keep in mind though, you're not really looking to press hard on your prostate in any case. Consider the fact that the most strenuous of anal contractions are nowhere near as intense as the pressure that one's hand can bring to bear. Most of my success came through subtle to moderate contractions anyway, it's a case of quality trumping all. Put another way, if strength were all this was about, everyone with half an arse to spare would be doing this by now. The Super O requires a certain amount physical and mental subtly and agility to generate.

That having been said, although I've used the SGX with success myself, my feelings about this unit have evolved over the last year. Frankly, I don't feel that it affords near enough prostate engagement for the majority of users. Granted, there will be those who will find it effective and beyond that it is a great ice breaker for those anal newbies out there as well. But given your concerns, I think your exploration will be better served with the larger MGX.

With regard to abstaining for a period of time and it's role in facilitating this experience, there is no doubt about it, it can be effective. First it allows for easier and a more intense arousal as well as increased sensitivity. But as you've surmised, it's crucial that you take that arousal and sensitivity and focus it on an area other than your penis! Moreover, you must avoid contact with your penis altogether, while your Aneros session is in progress. Hands off ...definitely! Make sure to read through BEE LIne thoroughly, there's a lot of information there that could help you. (I 'm currently working on a piece for BEE Line about this very topic which I will be posting in the next week or so).

Regarding your progress and your prospects for future success, given what you've produced with the SGX thus far, I've no doubt that you will be successful with the MGX give some time, patience and your committed attitude. Stay with it.....it is worth it!

Being rested is absolutely critical to your success. I've written on this extensively before, in my threads Keys to the Backdoor..and Revisited (see above and in BEE Line). The truth is, being tired may result in you ignoring the subtle sensations that should be focusing on. Furthermore it is possible that certain key sensations don't emerge at all when the body is fatigued. Part of being ready for this experience is about being rested. I've even suggested that people terminate their exploration when they become too fatigued during the course of session. Fatigue can lead directly to frustration and nothing positive is possible in it's prescence.

About why things like this must be so hard for us, that's a question best put to a philosopher I suppose . But suffice it to say that the really good things in life require a modicum of discipline, commitment, patience (and the consistent application oneself to a task) to achieve. Sounds like you're on the way!

Regards,

B Mayfield

P.S. Your wife sounds great, as always it's good to hear about a spouse who is encouraging of and participatory in sexual exploration of any kind (particularly of the anal variety).

Thanks for the kind words chief. I'm looking forward to what this thing has to offer. I go through phases where I don't sleep well and then I do. Right now, I'm not sleeping well so it's not the best time to be using this thing perhaps. I do feel though that the SGX is not hitting my prostrate really good. Do you think I need the MGX? I know what the prostrate is supposed to feel like, but I don't feel it hitting. Am I supposed to? It's useless even trying while I'm exhausted. So I'll try again when I've slept well a couple nights. As for my wife? Yeah, she's great. She's a true female nympho. Well they all are actually, but some just hide behind a mask, IMO. I guess I'm lucky. She'll do anything, anytime, anywhere. It diddn't phase her one bit when I mentioned this thing. She asked if she could use it, LOL. I said, you got a prostrate? She's got more than enough toys anyhow. Man, I'm so psyched about this thing. I just hope it doesn't take months to learn how to use it. I was so gung ho to feel something from it. Totally exhausted, I kept trying till my ass was kinda burning and I just said screw it. It's not gonna work till I'm well rested. I feel though that you have to abstain from poppin a nut for a few days to get the vibes goin. So I'm going to try it again after I have not released for at least 3 days.
Man, I hope this thing works. I could care less about the money, I just want the feeling. Man oh man, I can't wait.
Knuck