Hi Zane:
Since I started on the KSMO and Aneros, I'm not masturbating to orgasm at all. Huh. I just realised that. Good question, got me thinking.
no meds, no stimulants (except 2 oz/day of dark chocolate with whatever stimulant's in chocolate).
Let me test the hand towel...
K. I can the lif tthe hand towel. But I feel like I would rather do KSMO because I can feel the tension building better and better every time I practice KSMO.
I think you are on teh right track with the serotonin/dopamine thing. I will confess to being very not in a groovy frame of mind lately, and I think the relaxation angle is what I really need to work on.
KSMO is going well. I haven't hit the big O but am feeling more and more echoes. I am very satisfied with my progress.
Thanks Zane!
(this post was edited 2005-07-28 04:20:52)
Well my goodness of course you are feeling a bit tense! Just from a prostate health standpoint you really should unload at least every couple weeks--once a week would be better. The fact that you didn't even notice you had stopped orgasming I think might indicate rather low T levels. Or maybe not. Do you eat a lot of tofu or are you on a lowfat diet? Are you vegetarian? Putting on some muscle will help with free testosterone, along with getting plenty of good fat in the diet and eating protein and avoiding bad carbs.
But I think the main thing is the dopamine. If I were you I'd definitely try the Super-DHA thing before Aneros sesssions. Other natural things that raise dopamine are massage, meditation, long bouts of non-competitive, repetitive, moderate aerobic exercise, fantasizing, hypnosis (have you tried the brainsync Ecstasy CD?) um, feelings of being in love, some types of music, good fats in the diet, etc. But the fish oil works the best, aside of course from some pharmaceuticals and street drugs which give a stronger temporary response but soon lose their oomph (and of course being dangerous and addictive besides).
Bother, also must say don't take high-dose fish oil like this if you are on blood-thinning medication like Coumadin, aspirin therapy, take lots of OTC pain relievers, are scheduled for surgery or are allergic to seafood.
Just to get a feel for your free T, how often did you generally orgasm before you started the KSMO and Aneros?