Not understanding my body as well as i thought

@inhope Now start growing up for christsake... Nobody cares for your frustration and anger.
Many people here did their best to help you. And what did you do yourself for others?
We all had enough of your constant furry and disrespect.

Cheers for that cancan, disrespect where sorry? It is my experience of being here, as said there are decent types here, I thought you were one of them. People have helped, do help and are continuing to help me here, my last post was positive?

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@didymus You obviously don't know the english vocabulary well and have a sensitive ego, an exaggeration is a form of lie. You're defending empty air.

@Cannacan Imo I didn't see anything wrong with @inhopes post, unless you meant his posts in the past.

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You know what didymus?

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L O L Perhaps we should spar again someday ;))

@inhope - I do get dud sessions, but mostly I have learnt to avoid situations that bring them on - e.g. digestive troubles, stress, whilst suffering from blue-ball syndrome.

You are right that I don't therefore get as many dud sessions as you.

My advice, for what it is worth, is to focus on the good sessions, and put the duds down as a learning experience - don't dwell on them if you can. If focussing on the good sensations enhances those, then focussing on the bad could also end up enhancing them - which would be counter-productive.

When I have a dud session or sense one will be before I even start, I just give up. No use forcing things.
Also when a session is half dud I also give up and have a nap instead.

@Canacan Agreed. In my own limited experience I have found that if I struggle to keep my focus, I stand a very good chance of having a dud session. There is no bigger killer than random thoughts that rattle around in your head caused by worries or some area of concern in my life.

That is a big cause for a dud session but sometimes your body just do not want to, and then it is also a fruitless effort to try and "force" it.

If I find that happening, I find it is best just to let it go and get a good night's sleep. Tomorrow is a new day or the day after that or the day after that..........my prostate is not going anywhere.

My body and me are the same person... If the body doesn't want it, how could the mind convince itself it does? I try to re-balance my perception of the two.