My first Aneros is arriving today... any tips for my first time?

@great-sky-7465,

If you go to https://www.aneros.com you will see a video link to “Prostate Massage 101 - The Ins and Outs of Prostate Play”, ~38 minutes.  It is really good, with Forrest Andrews, who has studied prostate massages for many years for the company.

Then there is this link also:

https://www.aneros.com/pages/the-basics

@great-sky-7465 Golfing1's suggestion is a good place to start. It might help to think of this more as a meditation. Porn might not be the best idea starting out, rather focus inward to feel the tiny sensations that over time will expand. Focus on breathing and feeling energy flowing in and out of your prostate. Before starting make sure you're cleaned out somewhat (not your whole system, just your rectum). Put a towel down where you'll have your session. Use plenty of lube. You could lay on your back or side starting. Do contractions with the Aneros. Experiment with how you can move it, generally how it feels, and observe. Have fun and good luck !

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How am I supposed to used it? I guess no thrusting, right?

Insert and use your pelvic floor muscles to move your massager, avoid manual manipulation.

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Do I need press it inside with some kegel, or just sit there and do nothing?

Either method will work you just need to experiment.

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Can I watch porn while it's up there?

You can but many men find watching porn to be a distraction, taking focus away from the subtle sensations of prostate massage.

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I understand people are supposed to relax. Watching porn is fun, but it might be difficult to control my breathing. Is that important?

Yes, relaxation is important and breath work can also enhance sensations.

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Another option would be to do erotic roleplay online while having the Aneros inside. Would that be too disruptive?

Again this can be distractive, however, internally generated erotic fantasy can be an effective way to amplify arousal which is a key component leading toward prostate orgasms.

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My penis will be caged just to make sure I'll resist the temptation.

Many men have found that avoiding penile stimulation is definitely helpful in maintaining focus on the prostate sensations.

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Can I browse the internet at all, or should I just lie there and close my eyes for two hours?

You can but again anything that takes focus away from the subtle prostate sensations will make it more difficult to achieve prostate orgasms.

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I'm excited, but trying not to get my expectations too high.

You should be excited and not having any expectations is important. Now for my advice. @Golfing1's suggestion to view the Prostate Massage 101 - The Ins and Outs of Prostate Play is a good starting point but there is more specific information to be found in the following sources. Please see the Sticky threads Introductory Message to New Members, @B-Mayfield's thread B's Keys and B's Best and of course please read the Aneros WIKI. After reading through all that information you will have many more answers to your questions.

Good Vibes to You!

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Insert and use your pelvic floor muscles to move your massager, avoid manual manipulation.

Hi, sorry I'm confused I have a few questions please.

1) to give an estimation: approximately how many times to move Aneros intentionally during a minute?

2) Does the action of using the pelvic floor muscles last for all the session? I mean do you intentionally move the Aneros for 1 or 2 hours like thousand of times until you find a pleasure?

3) During orgasms do you still move it intentionally?

4) can you give more info about moving the Aneros what do you mean by moving ot using the pelvic floor muscles please? The pelvic area is very huge. 

thanks for your attention.

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1) to give an estimation: approximately how many times to move Aneros intentionally during a minute?

I agree with @Clenchy's response, there is no specific number or rate of performing contractions. Every man is unique and needs to find a rhythm that proves effective for him.

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2) Does the action of using the pelvic floor muscles last for all the session?

It could, one technique is repeatedly using contractions until muscle fatigue kicks in causing the PC and/or anal sphincter muscles to go into spasm (involuntaries), another technique involves trying to hold a contraction indefinitely until the involuntaries kick in. still another technique is using very slow contractions from light to heavy and savoring the resultant sensations. You just need to experiment and find what works well for you.

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3) During orgasms do you still move it intentionally?

Some men can or do, but I find that I just want to savor the sensation when it occurs and ride through the orgasm in a relaxed state of mind.

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4) can you give more info about moving the Aneros what do you mean by moving ot using the pelvic floor muscles please?

 Please see the Aneros WIKI>Your Body>Pelvic Floor Muscles for information. The three main groups of muscles are anal sphincters , pubococcygeus and rectal. Each of these muscle groups can move your Aneros in subtle ways and learning to take control of them individually will increase the likelihood of leading you to prostate based orgasms. Many men have found establishing a routine of kegel exercises has aided to their proficiency in achieving prostate orgasms using their Aneros massagers.

Good Vibes to You!

I can already report great things and hightened sensations. It looks like my first prostate orgasm is within reach, and it's amazing.

Questions:

1) Is there a limit of how long a session should be?

2) How often can I have a session? Is once a week okay? Can I do it more often?

Thanks for this outpouting of kindness and attention! I'm really enjoying my time! 🤩 🤩 

@clenchy Well, I'm happy to be the most immoral member in this community, bring on the gold medal, haha!

My concern is only of a medical nature. I'd like to know how often I can do it without hurting the prostata, the anus, my colon etc.

I'd like to do it often, but I'd like to stay healthy too.

@rumel what do you think about trying to use aneros during a relaxation massage

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@rumel what do you think about trying to use aneros during a relaxation massage

I don't think there is anything inherently objectionable to this, it could be quite interesting but I am not sure that it would be effective for achieving orgasms. While relaxation is an important state of being able to achieve these prostate orgasms it is also important to be focused on the subtle sensations being generated by the massager during contractions. Experiencing a full body massage simultaneously could be distractive to that mental state necessary but it could also be extremely arousing if the masseuse is suitably stimulating as well. Try it out and let us know the results.

Good Vibes to You!