i have never had a super o or dry o in a year and half. Believe me, I have tried. I have at times finished off some sessions masturbating till completion with the aneros inside me. When I ejaculate it feels slightly more intense. I have tried edging too sometimes and then stopping right before cumming. All I wind up with then is a ruined orgasm where cum seeps out and doesn't feel real good. Does anyone masturbate with the aneros in? And is of short-circuiting me in obtaining the elusive super O?
The super O is not down the same path as masturbation....edging and the super O can cross paths down the road but for now I would leave your cock alone. It took me about a year and half to have my first super O...keep on trucking.
I have found that when I orgasm with the Aneros in, it is always a dry O, with the exception of an occasional spurt. However, if I orgasm after removing the Aneros it is generally a huge, wet load. Both are highly intense, but in different ways.
There's nothing harmful about "finishing off" with a traditional ejaculatory orgasm at the end of an Aneros session, it's just that this will end your session, and possibly even your prostate sensitivity to massage like from these products for a few days, at least that's a common observation here and is the same for me too. If you're gonna use an Aneros to learn how to have a prostate orgasm, it's a totally different animal from simply having traditional sex with an Aneros stuck in.
And learning how to have a prostate orgasm is time consuming and frustrating for many. It took me about a year and that's been some years ago, but wow are they ever intense and enjoyable to have now, though even now they don't necessarily come every time I feel like I'd enjoy having a session. There's bit of uncertainty about how it's going to go every time, but for the most part if you just relax and enjoy having what feelings do come, you'll every so often stumble onto an incredible experience with dry orgasms that can go on for over a half hour or longer. It's kind of like having traditional sex with your wife and whereas for us guys, just some good old friction and spurt spurt ahh ahh and you're good till next time, she'll say, gee honey I just didn't feel much of anything tonight or whatever and you'll kind of feel bad about it. Then another time she's like, wow, that just really hit the spot it felt so great, and you're scratching your head as a typical guy would thinking, what did I do different that she liked so much and honestly you can't tell because you DIDN'T do anything different. It just that for her it really went over the top on some occasions and other times it was a dud. Same here with prostate O's.
I always suggest to newbies to warm up their Aneros pretty warm, not uncomfortably hot, use your preferred lube, lie down and get super relaxed and slip it in and do nothing for about 5 to 10 minutes. Then do some light bladder sphincter contractions, like you're trying to hold back pee, holding them for 20 seconds or so at the time, then relax about 10 to 20 seconds, then repeat the contraction, all the while lightly tickling your nipples. It takes several sessions, weeks to months even, but eventually by doing this you'll feel some involuntary wormy like wiggling contractions in your anus muscle (you DON'T pull in consciously with your anus) and then as sessions go on these feelings will go on to include some warm feelings in your pelvis like you're building up to ejaculate and then as time and further practice go on, you'll get to the point where it will feel hot and orgasmic in your penis eventually culminating over time in the feeling that you're ejaculating as intensely as you can but nothing's coming out. And this won't happen every time, even when you get to the point where you've started having some good orgasms. You just relax and enjoy "the journey" as they say and many times it will just sneak up on you. You'll grin ear to ear though when it does. When you first learn how to get the hang of this, it's almost more fun than learning how to masturbate your first times as a teen.
I have tried masturbating with the aneros inside me in the past, but usually it lead to (wet) orgasm in minutes , or sometimes even seconds:). The combined penile and prostate stimulation (sometimes with visual stimulation as well) is just too much for me to withhold my cum. So recently i've stopped doing it, also because i have developed the ability to generate ejaculation handsfree if i want: when i'm ready to blow my load i'll watch some porn and perform some strong contractions, and that will lead to ejaculation in a small period of time- Without any manual stimulation.
Even more recently i've tried not to ejaculate at all to see if i can trigger a dry orgasm just by stimulating my prostate (with aneros or aless). The other night i had a particular good aless session where suddenly i got this wave of a warm and tingling feeling in my lower abdomen (not just the prostate area) and general orgasmic feelings (including a racing heart), just like slimjm described in his post above. Lets see if i can expand this to a Dry orgasm or even a super o 🙂 any help or suggestions are welcome !
Update to my.post above: recently i managed to expand the sensations mentioned above purely by focussing on sexy thoughts and performing aless contractions. The feelings keept Building and Building until....
I had another wet orgasm.
It was actually a bit disappointing as i was hoping not to blow my load and to expierence a dry orgasm. On the other hand i felt it was quite an accomplishment to reach orgasm purely through mental stimulation (no masturbation, no aneros, no visual stimulation). I imagine it was similar to having a wet dream.
However, this latest session kept me wondering on how i can stimulate myself to orgasm without ejaculating. Any suggestions are welcome!
Just another thought; the 'sexy thougths' that I use during my aneros and aless sessions often involve ejaculation (eg cumming on female feet, breasts, etc). Could that be detrimental to achieving a dry orgasm?