I'm 5' 9" and all the massagers are to long. Any suggestions on one for short men?
They aren’t too long. And 5’9 isn’t that short. It’s your mindset that isn’t the right measurement.
I'm 5' 9" and all the massagers are to long. Any suggestions on one for short men?
I'm a little guy at 5'4"and all of the Aneros devices that I have hit the spot nicely. The MGX and the Maximus are my favorites. The Eupho is also nice but is more subtle in its action. I have a Doc Johson Moody 2 butt plug size medium. Many of the reviews on that device consistently say that it is to short to provide any pleasure. It has a three and a half inches inserted length, and it was to short for me to give any prostate stimulation. You don't mention what devices you are using, and I'm puzzled as to why you feel that they are to long, especially since you are a good 5 inches taller than I am. What massagers are you using?
I'm 5' 9" and all the massagers are to long. Any suggestions on one for short men?
This comes up once in a while, I'm 5'6" and all the Aneros devices I own work great, from Eupho to Progasm. Unless you checked yourself with a finger or prostate/G-Spot wand and you know without a doubt that your prostate sits very low, there's no reason why any of the toys would overshoot. If your prostate is actually very near the anal entrance, then maybe you can give the Peridise a shot, it will provide a bit of prostate stimulation but not to the same level the dedicated "prostate massaging" models will give.
gnawdol makes a good point about the size of various prostate devices. I had a Progasm and had similar results with its use - bruised prostate and soreness. I got rid of it because it hurt. Sometimes bigger isn't better. I agree with gnawdol's suggestion that KL13 try the Peridise. It's very gentle yet gives some very nice results.
SGX, the smallest (not counting the Peridise) works well for me. I'm also short (165 cm). Don't know why it does, but the SGX definitely hits the s p o t .
The Peridise is also quite sweet.
I have many models, but the SGX does something special. It's very close to the MGX and I try to compare the two in my hand and wonder why there's such a difference.
@bill-bately From the offerings shown on the Aneros website, it appears that the SGX is no longer avaiable.
Mindset is indeed everything. I am 5'9" also, and start my sessions (usually) with a Eupho Trident and switch off to my Progasm Ice after about an hour. I would advise the following:
1. Be sure you are very adequately prepped (read: cleaned out via anal douching).
2. Be sure you have no time pressure.
3. Relax and focus on your breathing and the sensations - don't attempt to "interpret" what you're feeling as anything but "interesting" and "pleasant".
4. Start your session with big stretches - they tend to set off mini orgasms or even bigger ones.
5. If you are ok with use of cannabis, it goes a long way to priming your prostate to pleasure and orgasms.
6. Don't try to "chase" an prostate orgasm. It doesn't work that way. They find your prostate and rectal area. For me, focusing on the feeling the perineal tab gives, I imagine trying to make circles or strokes to the perineum. In many cases, this totally pulls me into super O's.
7. Keep hydrated, and take regular pee breaks. Any amount of urine in the bladder detracts from the necessary relaxation to experience super O's.
Good luck; hopefully a point or two will help.
To echo what everyone has already said...your height doesn't really matter. I'm 5'6" and all the models work well for me. To me it sounds like you are ignoring the mental arousal factor for aneros. The mental arousal aspect is very important and should not be overlooked.
I guess one should ask, are you new to aneros and anal play? If you are, like most of us here, you aren't one of the lucky ones who stuck it in had a super o. In fact like a lot of us for the first several sessions, feel little more than the presence of some thing in your ass. Then something changes, for me my hips started shaking and vibrating. Wasn't a heart stopping orgasm. But I knew something was happening.