I've been looking at the Lelo website lately. Reason being is I have yet to find a good vibrating prostate massager. Lelo has a couple that do the perineum + prostate vibrating. But my question is, how does this relate to getting to the super o? I'm starting to think Aneros may be the most/only reliable way to the super O because you pop it in, and the body figures it out/get trained because of the p tab biofeedback idea. Which makes perfect sense. So if I were to buy a vibrating one, the body wouldn't be able to control it very precisely therefore no true Super-O. If I use a dildo, no matter what I do (thickness, length, speed, etc) I have yet to get any sensations compared to sitting with an aneros.
I guess I'm just being weak and no patience. Probably why I'm thinking about buying a Lelo because I think it's going to fast track me there. I have had mini o's a few months ago with my helix syn so I know it works. But it is so much work sitting there and doing absolutely nothing and having patience.
Debate/question is- in context to super-o land, is Aneros the only true prostate massager vs other massagers are just glorified ejaculations? Has anyone had their first super o without a device similar to the Aneros?
By the way, nice work on the new site updates, beautiful and modern, thanks!
@helgasm , if you have the Helix Syn, you have all the tools you need to embark on your journey to the land of bliss. The rest is in your mind and in your body. There are a lucky few who find a fast track, but for most of us it takes some time, since the the body, the brain and the nervous system needs to learn a new skill. The best tools are patience and an open mind to new sensations. Make use of all the learning resources and all the support available at this site. It will guide you on your juorney.
Aneros is not the only way. Many Aneros users also praktice KSMO ( https://multiples.com ), a technique that uses no tools except sound, breathing and relaxation. There are also other tools and techniques that you may come across that can support you in the process. Two of my personal favourites are Brain Sync ( http://www.brainsync.com ) and the Prostate Cradle ( http://www.prostatecradle.com ).
My personal recomendation would be to wait with vibrating prostate massagers, since they tend to desensitise the very nerv endings that you are trying to awaken, but then again, we are all different, so others may be of a different opinion. I would also recommend you read the excellent post The Myth of Super Orgasm by @neros ( https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/the-myth-of-super-orgasm )
So, put your Helix Syn to work again and make use of those best tools - patience and an open mind. And don't forget to enjoy the journey.
@Pavlov Can you describe how you use the Prostate Cradle in your Aneros sessions (or by itself, perhaps Aless?) I'm intrigued at the sensations you may get. Sometimes when I am sitting down, I will experience an intense "chairgasm'. Would sitting on this be similar? Thanks!
@goldenboy , I normally don't use Aneros together with the Prostate Cradle, since the perenial tab of the Aneros and the Prostate Cradle both stimulate the perenial accupressure spot (sweet spot) and therefore interfer with each other, competing for the same space. The one exception is the Peridise, where the Prostate Cradle takes care of the job of the "missing" perenial tab. The type of stimulation is similar to the technique of the three middle fingers of the "lower hand" stimulating the perenial area described in the KSMO audio seminar.
As for what type of sensations I get, they vary from time to time according to what "mood" my body is in, but they could perhaps be described as a sort of "chairgasms" where the pressure of the Prostate Cradle acts as an amplifier. Since the prostate is stimulated by external pressure through the perenium, rather than stroking through the rectum, the orgasms have a different "flavour" than with the Aneros, but they can nevertheless be full body, multiple non-ejaculatory orgams of mind blowing magnitude. My typical session will only include the Prostate Cradle and gentle stroking of my nipples.
A simple and inexpensive way to experiment is to find an eraser of suitable length, or some similar object, and place it between the seat of the chair and your perennial accupressure spot. Make sure that the end that you use to put pressure on your perenial accupressure spot is amply rounded. The pressure can be varied by adding or removing objects to alter the height of the eraser.
Try different positions including knees together or apart, and legs in different angles, on the floor or elevated. My personal favourite is sitting on a medium soft office chair, legs resting on another office chair and knees fairly close together. If I succeed in achieving "take off" in this position, I can have full body, multiple orgasms for as long as I can take it, but I usually "have my fill" after some 30 to 60 minutes.
Happy travelling!
@Pavlov Thanks for the detailed explanation! I have a feeling this will benefit many others! I know how intense the 'chairgasms' can be!
pavlov have you tried a tennis ball or baseball on you chair? you gave me a new idea thanks
@happyhole Happy if I can inspire to new ideas!
No, I've never tried using a tennis ball, but it might be just the right size and firmness. Possibly a bit too bulky for keeping the knees together though.
@helgasm , I recently purchased a Nexus Revo 2 which gets really good reviews, hoping it would be a nice next step from the Aneros being that it is an active device. Unfortunately for me it hasn't lived up to those reviews and I've been disappointed with it. I get more reliable / better results through listening to Gamma Meditation without even using an Aneros, and significantly better results with an Aneros (my current favorite is also my newest, the Eupho classic).
So I agree with the others, save a bunch of money and stick with an Aneros, at least for now.
@Pavlov and @happyhole
How about a practice golf ball? Bigger than an erasure but smaller than a tennis ball, with a bit of firmness but some give like a tennis ball. I have some and am going to give that a try tomorrow. I also have tennis balls so could try that too.
@ihave2cats I've never tried a practice golf ball either. Spontaneously it sounds like it might be a bit hard, but then again we are all different, and there's only one way to find out. I'm looking forward to reading your review! 🙂
@Pavlov I'm sitting on "tennis ball" and on my office chair as I am typing this. OMG! The sensation from my prostate is unreal! If I squirm-around or move the ball just a little bit... total bliss!.....
I don't know how much of this I can take. I am also getting an erection which is nice too! This appears to be a great way to start an Aless session! I'm starting to moan so I guess I should stop. I'll try this again later.
@goldenboy Good on you! 🙂 And no need for preparations like emptying, cleaning and lubricating. It's not like it will make you abandon your Aneros, but it provides a very nice means for variation and with very little effort.