Interesting newbie session....maybe close?

It sounds like you are doing really well.

Are you sure you didn't have an orgasm? As you have probably read they come in all shapes and sizes and over-analysing whether you are or are not having an orgasm, rather than just concentrating on what enjoyment you are getting, is a block to progressing to something more intense. I find that the moment I stop trying to analyse is when I lock onto the pleasure and it jumps up a notch.

There was a long thread on here some months ago about how easy it is to miss the subtle sensation at the start of orgasm, and potentially then miss out on the orgasm itself.

Just enjoy what happens, lose any expectations of what the orgasm should feel like, and I suspect you are closer than you think.

@beavissolid - completely get your point about wanting something larger which has been my problem, i was introduced to larger things going up there, so a little surprised opening the box my helix syn came in, ive quickly moved up in size to somethingvthat fills me better and stsrted having more results, ive personally still not super O'd yet, but feel things are moving in the correct direction, and besides thst starting to have fun with my play.

sounds like your almost there, seems its different for us all and whst works for one may not for another

I have to try again, maybe tonight. It didn't take too long to get in-voluntaries. Pretty confident I can get to there again. The music seemed to help a lot. Almost like everything was going to be the beat. What I'm going to do is try and focus on trying to get my "shaking" in my prostate area and concentrate on the good feelings. I'm probably getting re-wired because it didn't seem too pleasurable until after my shaking stopped but it was certainly different. Something else I'm going to try and work on is keeping the in-voluntaries going. It was almost like, as soon as I moved my hands or feet/body a little bit, all the in-voluntaries stopped dead. Also part of my re-wring sounds like it is, to get over the thought of a climax? Like I'm almost expecting more to happen and not seeing the good feelings?

Hello, back again. I had a couple more sessions since my last. Some with success and some not so much. Re-reading my original post. My sessions were not quite like that. Not of the crazy shaking and sweating. But I was able to get the anal involuntary contractions and I believe I had my first O. It was hard to describe but for me, it was an anal contraction build up and I could feel my prostate get hard. like my prostate also contracted. It was followed by 3 pulses, like boom, boom, boom. It felt like a surge in my head and prostate at the same time. But my other sessions after that have yet to get those results again.

How do I get my prostate hard and contracted like that?

I have stepped up my prostate play quite a lot recently, however I do find it difficult this time of year as I find it too cold. Recently for example if I try and do it in bed I usually find I start shaking as soon as I insert it, but I also get it before, or when I am thinking about it a lot. Its kind of a mix between too cold and out of anxiety/excitement.The shaking becomes uncontrollable sometimes to a point where it just counteracts anything, so I have to really try and concentrate to calm down. Much easier in summer though, I can't wait.

I'm probably the worst person to ask for advice as I have been trying a long time to have an orgasm. But I have been using the helix a while now and I have had some success with it and it feels like I'm close, and it sounds like what you described. I usually get the most results if I completely relax my anus and dont try anything. If I usually focus on that, most of the time it starts tingling down there and it builds up to a point where my prostate seems to harden up and the helix seems to grow hands and grabs me inside and feels real good, and the same time it happens I seem to go a bit lighted headed. I didn't feel any orgasms though and I haven't managed to get past that point yet, as it seems to peek there, but I can usually start it up again if I lose it quite easily. I usually find it much easier to do this in a hot bath rather than a freezing bedroom though. I think at that point I start expecting things which is why I am having trouble pushing past it.

What I found though if I have trouble starting it off, is if I start gently and slowly stroke the tips of my nipples, as it seems to send what feels like electric charges down to my prostate. Every time I stroke them my prostate twitches. I can only feel it if my anus is relaxed and also when it starts hardening up. I have read other people mention this but I never thought it would work, but I did try it and its very surprising how effective it is.

New to Aneros. Last night I tried to lay on my stomach and after 10 minutes of doing nothing a constant pleasure ensued. I will be doing that position again. I was on my side for 30 minutes prior getting good feelings as well. Never had a super o but the feeling I already get is more than sufficient for me. Had the Maximus inserted.