I need help

I think anyone can have one over time. It can take some individuals a while before getting a non-ejaculatory orgasm, I am one of those individuals unfortunatelly, about 2-3 months myself. I think if you are enjoying your sessions, it will come to you eventually. Don't obsessed with getting one, but rather enjoy the journey.

I know it all sounds like bunk, but that seems to be how it goes.

There are other ways to heighten the experience (KSMO, Slightest Touch, Brainsync, etc...) that can be found on this forum, if you haven't tried them. You might check out my blog post recently, I looked back at what I've tried and what seemed to work, perhaps there is something in there that might help.

Hope you get where you want to go soon, as well as myself 😛