OK , I was surfing the net one night when my wife was out of town and I'd had a few beers and was horny,I stumbled across a site that sold these rockets and on a whim I whipped out my card and ordered one , not knowing about dry o's or anything else . When it arrived I used it a couple of times with my wife and it was fun . Later on I decided to use it alone and layed down on the bed and within a couple of minutes was having these orgasms that are similar to regular except they covered a larger part of my abdominum , lasted longer and to my surprise were repetitive ,,,,all with a soft unit,,,,WTF 😯 ,,,, well needless to say I fired up the old computation device and went looking. Thats when I ran across you guys
I read and read and have not found any one with a similar situation . My question is this ..... I have tried twice to repeat this and both times it comes on quick by just lying still and quiet ,,,,however when it builds now I know its coming I cant help but squeeze my a hole and that kills it ,,,, how can I keep from pinching this cool orgasm off ???????
Newbie, one thing you might try is stimulating your nipples. The erotic sensations created by that will help divert your attention to other areas. Another thing I have realized in my experience with "mistress Aneros" is just how "control" oriented we men are. Over time, I have begun to learn how to be more receptive to the sensations engendered. I consider this my "feminine" side, where I am receptive and submissive to the experience rather than being in the driver's seat. That is, a "state of mind" and orientation rather than something you "do".
Anyway, I wish you luck in your endeavors. You are very fortunate to have had what sounds like a "Super O" (Super Orgasm) with only a couple of sessions. You might check out the Glossary and read up on "milestones", which lays out the different levels you can experience.
Thanks for reply,, I dont think I have a problem getting there , it happens within a few minutes , my a hole pulses and here it comes ,, I dont know why it came through the first time ,but the second and third time I would involuntarily squeeze my a hole as it builds and that kills it ,,I have read all the stickys and most pages , I dont do any of the contracting releasing or breathing I have read about on here, I have not read anyone else with this situation,, its hard to orgasm and not squeeze as I do during ejaculation
To be honest, I don't even know if it is possible not to contract when an orgasm is coming. Just like when you ejaculate, you will notice that a lot of muscles tense up. I honestly don't think the contracting is killing the orgasm, but you thinking that it is killing the orgasm does it. However, I could be totally wrong, I don't know. What usually works for me when an orgasm is coming is I half-contracting my muscles to draw the Aneros in about halfway and try to hold it in place as best as I can, you might give this a try instead of fighting against what your body is trying to do. Hope things work out, good luck!
OK, thanks , maybe I will just wait a couple weeks and give it another shot , either way the 1st experience was worth the bucks compared to what I waste on other stuff 😀