having trouble achieving multiple orgasms, please help!!

I had a similar problem a few months ago. I was able to convulse into whatever-kind-of-orgasm, but this would jostle my balls and the stimulation would make me ejaculate. Session busted! I started wearing a jockstrap just to keep my stuff in place and that's helped. I've also found (contrary to suggestions here) that if I jack off the day before a session, I won't be so overcharged during the session and I can concentrate on entering the Super O again and again.

Hey there fellow aneros and other toy users=) my names sam, have been experiencing prostate pleasure for about two years now and in the past 6 months have really noticed more sensations and feelings down there, but everytime I seem to near the peak I find myself squeezing my legs together and those final movements always make me ejaculate and lose the feeling. I know I just need to not stimulate my penis but am having trouble making my body not automatically unload when I get to this point, any suggestions or experiences would be awesome, thanks guys=)

Hi Sam!

I know it's easier said than done, but in all honesty, this journey is all about retraining your mind and body to experience sensations that are not something you've been used to experiencing!

For me to say, "well just don't squeeze your legs together" would sound flippant and not be very helpful!

Nevertheless, progress is usually made on this journey in small steps that add up to a bigger experience than most of us ever imagined was possible!

So, my suggestion is to avoid anything that causes you to have a traditional ejaculation as much as possible, and focus solely on your Prostate stimulation! In the beginning of my journey, it was not at all obvious that I was making progress, but I trusted he wisdom of others and persisted until I acheived amazing results.

Since you've been at this for 2 years, I assume you've read the everything on the Wiki pages, so you know what you should be doing during your sessions! Describe the type of pleasure you've experienced so far!

TG

@dildorider11011, I have that clonic muscle action in my legs too along with cremaster contraction before I ejaculate. it's especially prominent when riding the dildo. The leg contraction is painful until I ejaculate. It's an extension of both legs feet slightly turned inward during the clonic phase. If I'm edging I've probably gone over the edge. I do breathing and mental exercises to avoid getting to this point. Are you anerosing or riding dildo when this happens?

Hehe yea I know it seems simple but it's easier said than done. I usually start out with my prograsm and than switch it up to my pretty big dildo about half way through the session. I've yet to be able to play for longer than a half hour before I wind up fully ejaculating and losing the sexual energy. The other night after posting this I tried to play a bit different and ended up going into a fetile position on my side at my climax with my legs up and my cock behind them not being stimulated and rammed myself faster and harder than I usually do and had a really intense orgasm but ended up touching my cock and somewhat ruining the sensations. If I manage to avoid touching my cock will I be able to continue these feelings or am I doing something wrong where I lose sexual energy after each orgasm? Do I need to keep stimulating my prostate afterwards to reignite the feelings? Sorry guys I'm a bit buzzed and really horny about to go in on my next session sinse my post=)

Sam,

If the dildo is creating an overwhelming sensation that puts the pleasure in your penis, you're not likely to ever experience the Prostate orgasms most of us are talking about! In fact, stimulation of the penis is avoided so we can focus on the Prostate! Are you willing to try?

TG