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09/26/2016 12:26 am
I was wondering if anybody could weigh in on some potential solutions.
I've been trying to enjoy some solo dildo sessions lately, usually suction mounted to a flat surface like a wall or something. But I've found that I can't engage in repetitive penetration for too long before things start to get messy. I'll spare you the explicit details, but essentially I can't seem to find a reliable way to clean out before using my device. I've tried having a BM and waiting a while but it usually empty enough. I've tried using an enema but that usually results in some form of residual leakage, even if I wait a few hours afterwards.
I'm also dealing with what seems to be a small fissure. When I use the larger of my dildos for a moderate amount of time I start to experience some burning and stinging sensations that begin to override the pleasure factor and I have to stop. I've tried waiting a few days to weeks between anal activity to allow it to heal but it seems to recur after any type of activity. And yes, I'm using plenty of lube.
Does anybody have a relatively foolproof method of cleaning and emptying prior to a dildo session (something involving repeated insertions)?
And/or a good method for quickly clearing up a minor fissure?
Cheers!
09/26/2016 4:21 am
I wonder if you're penetrating too deep and getting past the internal sphincter, that holds your poop in, which keeps the rectum relatively clean. It's just a thought.
09/26/2016 2:33 pm
@musicmaker86 - don't continue with anal toys until you've checked yourself out for fissures. if you have fissures, repeatedly aggravating your anus will only cause them to get bigger and become more serious.
I've just been told i have some superficial fissures and from reading online, it seems to be a good idea to hold off on the anal play until it's fully healed. otherwise you'll be living with a partially ripped/bleeding anus for a long time....
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09/27/2016 1:24 am
I wonder if you're penetrating too deep and getting past the internal sphincter, that holds your poop in, which keeps the rectum relatively clean. It's just a thought.
This is probably true, I am using a 7" device. However I know it is possible to use such devices (or longer) and penetrate deeply without worry of a mess. I'm just wondering how to achieve this kind of internal emptiness/cleanliness to prepare for a session where, if I want to use a longer device and penetrate deeper, I can.
09/30/2016 3:35 am
I would say a more thorough enema.
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10/31/2016 9:46 pm
*Update*
Recently had some great success with solo sessions and no more messes. I recently purchased and installed a Hand Bidet ( https://www.amazon.com/SmarterFresh-...nd+bidet&psc=1 ) in my bathroom.Honestly, one of the best things I've ever done. Never felt cleaner, inside and out. The pressure is just right, enough to give me a fresh clean feeling after a bm and it shoots some water up inside my anus for a (sort-of) mini anal-douche. As a result I've had some solo dildo sessions with absolutely no mess at all.
Another thing I've changed up is I've switched over from using my devices mounted to a vertical surface (wall, dresser etc.) to now using them almost entirely by hand. The angles I'm penetrating with now seem to keep me from going too deep and past the next sphincter into the colon. Also since I'm using my hand to manipulate the device I'm able to be a bit more precise with my movements; going as slow or hard/fast as I want.
My goal is to try to stimulate a hands-free orgasm. The sessions have become much more enjoyable since I've not had to worry about messes anymore!
11/01/2016 7:22 am
7"? wtf ive got a 5" and if it goes all the way in causes discomfort! no wonder its causing leakage.... unless yure the size of giant or something crazy
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