First real dry-O after 2 years! Music was critical, but I need some music advice.

I thought I was having Dry-O's before, but now I realize, I've all this time been having P-waves, very strong ones, but P-waves none the less.

Two days ago I had what entirely felt like a regular orgasm, my dick was bouncing all over, eyes closed, and I swear I was spraying cum all over the place... I opened my eyes and found a bunch of prostate fluid running down me, but that was it!

It was so amazing, I never realized after 2 years that it _can_ be indistinguishable from a regular orgasm.

The big change was listening to up-beat, but not too fast music without vocals. I used Slacker ( http://slacker.com )'s Electronic->Chill [Non-vocal] channel. I'm a subscriber, so no audio commercials here.

In my head I fantasized about various women dancing naked _to_ the music. I let the music lead the way and the fantasy follow that.

The problem is, it's rare to find a good song that I can really do this to. It has to be non-vocal, and not too fast, something you could invision a stripper slowly dancing to in a sexy way.

Do you guys listen to music, and if so, what do you listen to?

I've tried to repeat the orgasm since then but am always falling short now. I get excited "OH ITS STARTING", then I lose it all.

I see the pattern, as soon as I have a breakthrough, I have a "set back" for about a week until I go get frustrated and forget about my breakthrough, then another breakthrough happens.