At least in porn and sex stories, prostate stimulation and strap-on play is mostly connected to femdom. Obviously there are exceptions, but I'm talking about the majority of flicks. Personally I'm a switch, but definitely more submissive than dominant. I'm not into pain, but love the feeling of being dominated and the dirty talk. I was wondering if you girls and guys here are into it.
I don't know for sure because I haven't even had sex yet, but I am definitely interested in it, as long as it isn't too extreme. No pain or anything, just giving away total control of yourself to another person.
Both being the dominant one or submissive is interesting to me, but I can't really tell if I prefer one over the other at this point. Porn where the girl is tied up and forced to cum multiple times is about as arousing as porn can be for me. I used to be very envious about not being able to experience it myself, but after learning about MMO, I know that it may be possible for myself to experience something similar in the future. I hope I get to do it some day. Though, worth noting is that I am not into prostate or strap-on play, so in my case it would have to be using some other parts of my body, like stimulating the penis in a way that doesn't lead to ejaculation, or using the nipples etc.
@onthewaytonirvana, I'm a switch, too, and like femdom and dirty talk very much, as far as it doesn't become too kinky, like men wearing women's underwear or such shit. I'm more interested in playing with domination than with pain, too, though I must admit to love a little spanking or some mean nipple play from time to time, as long as it happens without bruises and keeps moderate. Although there are many flicks about femdom I found it easier to find another man to share this kink with.
Perhaps you might be interested in some audio hypnosis files, I stumbled upon when joining this forum. As they helped me a lot with giving up command and letting go, I only can recommend to give them a try. Nevertheless I must warn you too, that it might become an addiction, if you once have fallen for her voice. So, perhaps you should read my referring blog posts first to be prepared. 😉